She Cheated, what should he do?

The love he felt, if he felt it, is his. He should keep that. This does not in anyway equate to staying with an unfaithful spouse (assuming they didn't have an open marriage) Beyond keeping the love he built within himself, the most important thing now are the kids. Sounds like most of this needs some time to play out. Because there are children, an infidelity alone should not necessarily require an end to the marriage. On the other hand it could signify the marriage is over already. Be sure you know what your real interests are here and make sure you stay right in your own mind- whatever that is.

Well if you are 100% positive that she is cheating maybe her and her husband can work it out. You never know. But if she isnt willing to work it out, or if they won't then tell him that he deserves someone who will treat him better and be faithful. He's just in the stage of denial... he'll soon realize that he doesnt need this ho in his life and leave her. But his job is pretty important and he will need help raising his kids. That is probably an issue. If you really care about your friend and are willing to help him out (its up to you) than you can offer to help care for the kids once in a while. He's going through a horrible time and doesnt know how to handle his emotions. Tell him that shes unfaithful, and dont hurt urself like this. He'll find someone who will treat him great and love and be faithful to him... but he needs to leave this unfaithful slut behind. You seem like a really good friend who just wants the best for ur friend. Keep being a good friend, supportive, and just help him realize he's too good for her. He'll eventually realize this!

I cant believe this. Telll him that if shes gonna treat him that way then hes better off with out her. I cant believe he would still want her after she did that to him. He will hurt for a while but i mean thats gonna happen. Even if she does come back he'll only find things harded then they were before. So maybe he should see a conselor or something.

HOnestly right now he is in the stage of denial...

its really hard to get out of this stage

he wants everything to be hunky-dorree

but it will take him time seeing as he is the victim adn she is the abuser

its hard VERY hard all you can do is research the cycle of abuse (the red stage ,green stage and yellow stage) and other topicsd concerning these problems and educate him...because obviously he deserves better (hope I helped)

Many would suggest that one indulges in the triad of Carrie Underwood's, "Before He Cheats." I would recommend caution, for the car you may damage may well be your own; you know the one she drives all the time..``Before She Cheats.`` walk away.

It is hard for people to let go. They have to let go in their own time. When he gets tired of being used and mistreated he will leave. Until then just be his friend and help him through him hard times.

Tell him to let her go. The only reason he wants her back is a smarting pride and that will heal in time.

Tell him he's stupid if he still wants her.

She doesn't deserve a good, hard working man like him. (So you say lol)

Sounds to me like she was just there to mooch off of him.

Tell him that if she did it once, she'll do it again.

He's just wasting his time.. by the amount of time he wastes on her.. he would be able to find an actual loving partner who cares for him and loves him.

Tell him that she is a piece of crap and that once a cheater always a cheater. He will realize that he is much better off without her once he actually does leave her.

there is nothing you can tell him now ,because he cant live without her and its up to him to make his own decison,trust me i know about this,i understand you dont want to see him hurt,but if he dont believe you,there nothing else you can do,he will get over it by himself.