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what to do??? llllooonnngggg story but very interesting?

ok so my friend set me up with this guy last year when we were 15 but we couldn't date till we were 16 so we just flirted and stuff. after a while i noticed that he started losing interest in me. so i told him that *i* wanted to just be friends. he agreed that being friends would be better.

so then we still texted each other and said hi in the halls at school but thats all. but i guess he is sorta my best friend cus he's the one i always go to when i have good or bad news. he's almost always been there. so then we were dancing at a school stomp one night a few weeks and after we made out a little. it felt like a total dream, it was everything i always wanted. so then the weekend came and the whole time he was bein all sweet and textin me saying that he missed me and cant wait till monday. then monday came and he met me after every class with a hug and a kiss. it was wonder ful. but then tuesday (he's mormon btw) he started feeling like he wasn't ready for a girl friend. after school that day we had a class room all to our selves cus he was suppose to be studying for a test. the teacher just told us to shut the door when we were done, it was already locked. so naturally, we shut the door and started making out. it was amazing...

so then that night after we both went home he said that he really wasn't ready for a girlfriend. so we were just friends again. then it was thanks giving break and we didn't talk much...

then this week he only met me after class when i asked him to, but there was only a hug, no kiss....

but then on Wednesday, we were hanging out at school before he had to go to practice and he kissed me. i was back in that wonderful place again. this time we went a bit further than makin out, he felt me up a lil bit. it was awesome!!! after i walked him to practice, he texted me sayin that he felt really bad that we went that far and he cant see me anymore cus its too dangerous around me for him. so i agreed...

later that night he texted me sayin he still wants to be friends and just for get about everything that has happened since we kissed. but i said that wasn't good enough. and i cant forget and i want to be his girlfriend. eventually he agreed to think about it. so then at school i could totally tell that he just agreed to it cus he didn't want to hurt me anymore. so i told him that we should just forget everything...

but i'm still inlove with him. i'd totally do anything for him.

so what should i do? should i still text him? or should i wait for him to text me? should i still wait for a relationship? or should i look for some one else? help?!?!?!

Update:

i've tried the whole jealousy thing, doesn't work on him.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    This is interesting. I like how you said he's Mormon, the whole question makes sense because of it. From what I gather of the Mormons, I don't think they're supposed to do anything with a girl until they marry them. Also, I think they go to church at least once a day, which explains why his feelings change for you almost on a daily bases. He knows that he cannot do too much with you, because of his religion, but by bottling up his feelings, he does those speratic kissings out of emense burst of love for you when he cannot hold himself together anymore.

    He loves you, more than the casual likeing. The Monmon faith is intresting in respects of the relationship stuff, and marriage for that matter. The only way to be with him is to be friends. This may seem hard to do, but it's better than having him never see you. You don't need to forget about those special moments, those are yours to keep forever.

    The only really way to have a relationship with him is to wait until you grow up. Maybe it would be helpful to ask your guy why he feels bad from being around you, and then maybe he will tell you if his religion has anything to do about, or some elephant in the closet reason. You have true love waiting at the doorstep, don't upon the door to soon.

  • 1 decade ago

    Girl, you need to tell him to make a decsion one way or the other & quit leading you on. (B/C that is EXACTLY what he is doing.)

    Then the hard part comes because the you have to stick to your guns.

    IF he says he wants a relationship with you tell him you would like that very much but you are absolutly not going to do this on & off again thing.

    BUT if he says no, b/c of his religious beliefs or whatever, then you have to accept that & tell him that you understand (even if it S U C K S) and that you would still like to be friends but you guys need to lay off the kissing & text messaging and stuff.

    This will work out one way or the other!

    Good luck to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    its obvious hes influenced by his religion...as well as he is totally into you.....see when hes w/ you...he wants to show you how he feels, an then he does......but later he feels guilty for what he did......hes just really confused, an the fact that he is open an honest w/ you tells you he really is a good person....the best thing to do, is to stay friends right now....let him know you respect his decision, an its not a good idea that you guys keep this on an off thing going....its only breaking your heart....but remember...you guys are young...very young....you go to school together....walk the halls...study hall....lunch...sporting events.....your not truly losing anything here ....but gaining even a stronger friendship w/ him.....an one day, if its truly ment to be...it will be.....right now your in a no lose situation.....

  • 1 decade ago

    aaww so romantic!! Well I'm just gonna let you know I'm younger than you so this may not work for high school kidz...but I think you should give it some time... honestly it seems to me like he's doing what he wants more than anything..relationships are about trust and doing whats best for BOTH people... He has you on a emotional rollercoaster to no where...sweety if you ask me...you sound like you can get all you want out of him...just distance yourself for now...i would say ignore him...let him know that you didn't like being bounced around on his schedule...if he's not ready oh well, I know exactly how hard it is to let somebody go..but you can never really completely let them go... try hanging out with your girlfriends for a while... if he really loves you..he should see that your obviously hurting...that's just not right to do to someone...so in all..just distance yourself gurlie..

    hope i helped...xox

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  • 1 decade ago

    i think your in love with being in love lol,you never actually talked about how smart or nice or handsom or anything he was,just that kissing was fun,i think you like the fact that hes forbidden fruit that he keeps changing his mind,the sooner you get over him the better,write down on a piece of paper what you like about him and what you don't like if the pro's outway the cons then see where it goes but if they don't then leave him alone.Also i think he has already made up his mind,if he really cared about you he would have stopped playing games alooooong time ago,he has no commitment there for he doesn't feel obligated to do anything or not see other girls,you let him go pretty far and you guys aren't even dating.

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  • 1 decade ago

    ok well hes giving u a lot of mixed signels...and that is soooo annoying....i think u should just tell hi how u feel....tell him that he cant do this to u and he needs to make a decision....and if he says hes not ready or something like that then find somebody else....u shouldnt be waiting around for a guy whos never gonna come

  • Paul L
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    A - he likes you - that much is plain

    B - he's Mormon, and they usually have pretty strict rules to follow. So unless you're Mormon also, you're going to have to let him be ready when he's ready. He probably has a lot of conflicting feelings between how he feels about you and his devotion to his religion.

    C - you can always walk away & just say "hi" in the hallways if you see each other and leave it at that.

    These are just suggestions though....

    Good luck....

  • 1 decade ago

    you should still be friends with him but just don't text him, you can say like hi if you see him in the halls but don't cater to him buy texting cause it seems clingy and you still want him after you already said just forget everything. only text back if he text you first.Try to find someone else cause this boys seems wishy-washy and es taking you through loops. but don't fall for the next boy that comes up on you and fills you up and kisses you cause he might just want your body.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    OKif he doesn't want a girlfriend screw him! you're better than that but if you felt sparks when you kissed, wait for the white horse to come around, again if it doesn't than. Ask him why he can't be around you anymore, was he cheating on you, did he use you to cheat? You have to ask so you know if it was mean't to be.

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