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What should i do....?

Theres this guy that ive known now for more than 7 months. I sorta feel for him a few weeks ago and now hes all i think about. The problem is im 15 (will be 16 this month) and he just turned 20 in october. Hes been giving signs that he likes me to but i know my parents woudnt let me date him but i really want to.... wht should i do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    im sure you dont want to hear this but.....talk to your parents they will have a great deal to do with it when they find out so be upfront and let them know whats going on before you put somebodys life in jepordy

  • Moi
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    At 20, he's too old for you - anyone who is 20 and trying to go with a 15-16 year old remember, other 20 year old females don't want him. They're older and wiser, so he's not able to fool them.

    Stay away from him, and if needed, talk to your parents. No they wouldn't want you with him, and that is responsible parenting. The more you talk to adults the more you'll see where the problems with this man are; you know them already. He should never have approached you, either. Believe me, you'll get over him real fast.

  • 1 decade ago

    one, i kno how you feel, i like older guys rather than younger. But if hes 20 and you do have sex wether you want to or not its still rape. Just to find someone your age, If you really like him you can wait.

    also im 16, so and i did like an 18 year old before twice. so im like your age so maybe thats a reason to listen to me. also you might think u like him but then really dont, that has happened to me before too ha. well good luck with everything (:

  • 1 decade ago

    You should stay away because you could get him in a lot of trouble. You are illegal to put it bluntly and regardless of how either of you feel, if your parents don't approve, it could mean jail time for him. I know it may seem hard to do but, if you really care, then care about his well being and leave him alone so he doesn't end up in a lot of trouble.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you want him to lead a good life, Don't date him until you turn 18. Legally, he cannot touch you, or he could be charged for statutory rape, and placed on the sex offenders list for the rest of his life.

  • i trulyy reallyy don't know what to tell you. but it's not impossible or anything. mm but I would say stick to your parents advice I know it may suck but they know better. & when you date someone that much older than you they usually want more, believe me I know been there it's not so pretty to feel pressured to do something you don't want 2. & then u break up & aren't even friends or even speak which really sux I think so yea. hopefully reading my experience will sort of help u w/ ur decision. lots of luck girly!

    Source(s): experience ♥
  • 1 decade ago

    Find out if he really likes you first. If he asks you out or anything talk to him then talk to your parents but whatever you do, don't go behind your parents back because that will not end well. Good Luck =]

  • 1 decade ago

    It is not normal for a 20 yo to want to date a 15yo. He either is very immature, or he just wants you for one thing only. Stay away from him. You will just get hurt.

  • my cousin was 14 when her boyfriend turned 20 and now there married screw parents. if you like him then go for it but be careful hes in a ttly differnet world then you and whatever you do (if your still a virgin) dont have sex with him. ok?

  • 1 decade ago

    LEAVE him alone. there should be no reason why a 20 year old would like a 16 year old anyway besides wanting sex from her!

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