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how do i come out and talk to her?

sso theres this girl at work and i have to go and talk to her in like an hour or so and at a time she came over an we made out and what not.. u can say i had a thing for here ok but she has to many guy friends and she goes to alot of partys ok and i work with her. but now i have decided just to let her be and live her life instead of me trying to hook up with her....so the only way i know how to mind my own business is to have selective talking like at work i only talk about work but she keeps tellin me that im mean and when i dont giver her attentions she ignores me completley and she thinks that im mad at her which im not im just minding my own business 0k so i have to go talk to her soon an i dont really know what to say or how to start of the subject??so how do i come out and talk to her cuz i just dont know shes sendine me mixed signals does she like me?hate me? what i dont understand??

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lol sorry guys but this is the only section i thought i could get some reall answers thank guys

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Listen man, all I can tell you is if you are a man than stand up and be counted!!!! If you are in high school than a little bit of learning is in order. I have found in my life that it is better to regret doing somthing than NOT! You will look back on your life and think and regret " I should have done this!" but then again you could look back and think" I am glad I did that but wish things ended up differently!" The point is at least you tried!

  • 1 decade ago

    Dude!! no fraternizing in the work place lol.

    Yea just ask her what's her deal you think she's been acting weird. Hopefully you don't work in the postal service so you won't get shot if you make her mad. But it sounds like she's interested in you, but she maybe an attention goddess to. Either way just ask her why she's been acting strange and if there's anything you can do to help her out because jobs are hard to find now days and you don't want production down on your end or her end.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hey, a little piece of advise, those reactions mean that she likes you. At least from my experience. It means that she is interested in you, if she wasn't she wouldn't care how you acted or what you said/ talked about. Then to find out and get the mixed signals figured out just bluntly ask her how she feels. I mean it's she likes you or she doesn't. Its not complicated. If she doesn't you move on and are glad you didn't make a fool of yourself. If she does like you then you just need to sit down and talk about how to make things work in both favors.

    Source(s): my own
  • Margz
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    1 decade ago

    Just tell her what you just typed. Tell her that you can't just keep hooking up with her if she's going to keep hanging around other guys and partying a lot. Tell her that you don't want to change her either, but that it's hard for you to go through that emotionally. She should understand. Tell her you just want to be friends, and by talking only about work you've been trying to be strictly friends, with no flirting or anything, so that you don't wind up hooking up with her because you don't want to let your feelings for her increase.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ok...you should deff not mess ith a chick who craves attention like that.

    and yes she probally does have herepes lol and she does not liek you,hate you or nothing she just simply is wanting to bet he center of attention and wants you constantly care about her.

    and first start the conversation out by asking how she is and blah blah

    and then bring up how you both kissed by saying like remeber when we kissed??? and of course she willproablly look at you strange and say yea or no refresh my memory lol

    then if she says yeah be like i dont want you to think i got a thing for you,i jut went with the flow and ims orry but it was mistake i dont want you to get feelings for me and i think we should just be friends!

    hopefully that works!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sorry dude. I fix cars; not relationships.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    she sounds like a cock tease. keep looking

  • 1 decade ago

    she probably has herpes, leave it alone dude!

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