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In love with 2 men what to do, and say advice?

O.k. Here's da story... Im in love with 2 men completley and totally .Here's how this happened. One is my husband who i have bf with since middle school we was married a little over a year when i left him and started filiing for divorce because of all the fighting and he got me arrested for his "bad habits" wrong place wrong time kinda thing we both have pending charges now and he wouldnt keep a job so when i was filing for divorce me and my ex whom i have been bf with for a while bout 4 -5 yrs now and i am comepley in love with him to and i guess my husband now wants me back hes got a good steady job and hes showing hes trying and i went to church and prayed for peace before me and my husband started talking again for peace about the divorce and i end up n this situation. HELP! what to do i love my bf and my *seperated* husband and i don't know what to say and advice i dont know what my heart tells me but i love them both ..Advice. and what to say to the one man who get "unlucky" how to tell him with out hurting him.HELP!

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  • Kylie
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Good grief...you just confused the heck out of me!

  • 1 decade ago

    oh my im going through the same thing ! im sooo lost and confused. one is my "babysdad" ive been with him for 6yrs living together for almost 2yrs with our 2 babies.Well for the past 2yrs ive been secretly loving another man (met him when my 1st son was 5mthsold) but then i got pregnant again and stopped talking to him obviously. now situation with my babys father is harder and just alot of fights and the other guy is back in my life loving n missing me..im just not trying to break up "a family" i feel like im just with my man for the kids and i know its not right.Its hard because we have both men at our feet ready to "commit" and we cant make a decision because were to afraid of how badly we will hurt them or "what if" we chose to stay with the wrong guy !!! uggghhh -pulls hair-

  • 1 decade ago

    if it didn't work out with your husband the first time, there is not a very big chance that it will this time. I think you should stay with you bf.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Let each prove to you who is the better choice. Give it some time and see them both.

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