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How do you get a girl you REALLY like to like you?

i like this girl and i dont think she likes me and i REALLY like her plz help plz

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    1. Don't flirt with other girls.

    It makes us feel like we're not good enough for you. We feel like we did something wrong so you are making up for it with another girl.

    2. Even if you're not going out, heck, even if you're not friends, don't say bad stuff about us.

    We could be the meanest people in the world to you, but most of the time we're joking and we think you're serious. You haven't seen mean until you say something bad about us. We have evil sides and we're not afraid to use them.

    3. We're not toys.

    Don't just have your fun with us and drop us. We're serious about things. That's just mean and we'll spend days wondering what we ever did wrong.

    4. Put your arms around our waist firmly but gently, holding us close to you.

    If you can, smell our hair! For most girls, we try to succeed in making it smell and look good! Plus, we know you love the smell, why try to sneak around?

    5. If you've done something wrong, fess up.

    Tell us before we have to ask you about it. Trust me, when we ask, we'll be twice as angry, and that's just if you tell the truth. We know. We don't guess when we confront you. We have our connections, and we know what's going on. Lie to us and you can pretty much send your death wish.

    6. When we say we love you, we mean it.

    We're not willing to tell just anyone that. Our hearts are gentle and it's very hard to trust guys, and it takes time. Don't worry if you tell us you love us and we don't say it back right away. We do, we're just thinking about how sweet it was that you said it first. And if it takes a day or two, we're not deciding. We're figuring out how we can prove it.

    7. If we have guy friends, we love how you hold us close when we talk to them.

    We think it's cute when you get all jealous, but don't overdo it. We're not dumb, we're not gonna mess around. We're not flirting, so don't blame us later. Now, if some guy friend of our's is flirting with us, then you have every right to overreact and kick his ***.

    8. Anything you'd want us to know about you... know about us, too. We'll memorize every fact.

    We'll have our friends quiz us on how many homeruns you had in a season, what your favorite color is... But it's gonna hurt if we know so much about us and all you can say is, "Uhh..." and make a guess.

    9. If our eyes are shiny, we're either really happy or we're about to cry.

    Look at our smile and the way our face is. Is it the same way it is when you make us laugh? If not, we're going to cry. At that point, if you can tell, turn us so that we're facing you and wrap your arms around us tight so that we feel like nothing could harm us at all while we're there, and stroke our hair. When we cry, often we will bury our heads in your shoulder. If we don't, wipe away our tears. Whisper gently in our ear. Tell us it's okay, even if you don't know what we're crying about.

    10. Know that we like it when you tickle us.

    It makes us laugh and reminds us that you know that exact spot that makes us cry we're laughing so hard. It's cute.

    11. Surprise us.

    Call before you're at the door, make sure you have good timing. Tell us to look out the window, or open the door. We'll see you and hang up and run to your side. Bring flowers for now reason. Give us candy when we're down, that always works! Show up just to kiss us and see us smile.

    12. Show us how much you love us.

    That doesn't mean show us how bad you want to have sex. We're not walking beds. (So, in other words, we're not just easy legs walking around.) We love it when you whisper in our ear, or breath on our neck. We like it when you kiss under our jaw down our neck, resting your head on our shoulder. We feel like we're repaying you for every time we rest on you.

    13. We love to look at the stars.

    Plan a night to surprise us and don't tell us where you're taking us no matter how much we may beg. Take a picnic dinner, candles, a lighter, plastic glasses and sparkling cider. Don't forget to bring lots and lots of coffee for us! We love that stuff. Bring 3 blankets. One for the ground when we lay on top of you in your arms, one for over the top of both of you, and another that you sneak on top of her during the night, just in case she gets cold. Hold us close and let us look up at the stars in your arms. If we fall asleep, don't wake us up. Stay the night with us right there, and let us use you for a pillow. Get comfortable, but try your hardest not to disturb our sleep, because if we open our eyes we'll tell you to take us home.

    14. If your friends think it's cool to have sex, it doesn't mean we do.

    We have plans for our lives, usually. And if not, we're still not ready to handle that kind of pressure. Being in a relationship is a lot of responsibility itself, and having sex just means you have to be more committed. Wait until we're ready. If you pressure us, we're going to get mad and we might not ever have sex with you. (Another way to put it: We'll dump you, no matter how much it hurts.)

    15.

  • 1 decade ago

    There really isnt much you can do. Except be noticed by her. Talk to her, spend time with her make sure she knows you inside and out... and make sure you know her inside and out too because than you will know how much you like her.

    If you arent sure if she likes you ask her yourself. If she likes you, great! You should know what to do from there.

    But sometimes somethings just arent meant to be and if in the end she doesnt like you its best to just move along with your life. No sense waiting around for something that won't happen.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    awh.

    you cant make no one like you.

    that person should like/love you for the person that you are so just be yourself :).

    dont change for anybody.

    maybe you think that she doesnt like you, but she does?

    maybe you should try telling her how you feel and see what she says back.

    but if she's not interested then there's nothing that you can really do.

    just keep your chin up and move on.

    there's always someone better out there, and that will love you.

    just remember:

    NEVER EVER CHANGE FOR ANYBODY! x3

  • 1 decade ago

    Be yourself, talk to her. Become friends first.

    It's always good to gain a friendship and take it from there

    Best of Luck (:

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  • 1 decade ago

    That's something she has to do on her own. Either it's there ,or it's not. Just be friendly ,and be your self,don't do anything to turn her off,and if she likes you, she will let you know.

  • 1 decade ago

    talk with her nicely. ask her to go to dinner or something. don't be bugging her about it though. sometimes the chemistry just isn't there. if she doesn't want to talk or go out, then it would be better for you to move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    babe all grls are different take it from me be yourself and let the girl like you for who you are instead of tryin to impress her or the relationship isnt worth it.

  • 1 decade ago

    say hello

    be nice

    say she looks/smells nice

    ask her if she needs help with homework

    ask her when her birthday is and buy her a present

    Source(s): smile and be nice
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