Why do the majority of women play up or rely on their sexuality or physical looks when trying to attract men?

How can they be in discord? Physical attraction is necessary in deciding who you MIGHT want to be with. Physical attraction alone is not enough to make us want to be in a relationship though, not even a sexual one.

If I don't like you I am not going to f*ck you, no matter how hot you are. There has to be a meeting of the minds and some degree of compatability but you won't know that when you first lay eyes on someone. Why is that basic concept so elusive to you?

Unless you are dating virgins or new mothers I don't believe you are having so much trouble finding women who want sex on a regular basis. We all want it and we want it often. Maybe you are the world's worst lover, which all evidence seems to be pointing at, since none of your girlfriends will have sex with you.

Because they don't have anything else to offer and are completely ridiculous. No common sense, respect or dignity.

Obvious no open and honest communication either.

There are a lot of attractive people and it's unfair for their looks to automatically be put into some stereotypical story you have here - just because they come off beautiful doesn't automatically mean they want sex.

If they play on their looks, then yeah - it's stupid for them to think that they didn't know people saw them or wanted to get more.

It's a game and if the rules aren't established at the beginning, then someone will always lose.

Just don't freakin' go around looking for "sexy" people and EXPECT them to give out. And all these game players with alternative motives have it coming to them.....

You can't POSSIBLY HOPE to entertain some sort of serious relationship with a woman when you regard her as only some type of receptacle for your genetic material! Sir, even if you are physically attracted, you still must discover the inner essence of a woman as human being. Besides, when you rush to fast into the physical you can't even appreciate the mental or spiritual part of someone. And you know what, the physical part always wanes. You need an emotional, mental, spiritual connection with strong, open communication because during those times when you and her aren't sexin' it up, what are going to say to keep her around??? Just a thought. Good luck!

"The main reason I even talked to you is because you looked good and played up your physical/sexual attributes--- now we get into a relationship and you're telling me I should "wait" and that sex shouldn't be a priority?"

Male desperation for sex sure brings out their ugly personality traits in some men, don't it?

Sexuality and looks may get the attention, but it's personality and compatibility are what make a relationship...

Most relationships start off sexual, so I don't know what to tell you there, maybe figure out why these women don't want to sleep with you?

Um...emphasis on being attractive in order to attract someone...because it works.

As for the sex not being a priority, I don't understand that AT ALL.

Well, women know looks are the primary attribute on which they will be judged by prospective mates, that is simply how it works.

They also know that men avoid entering long term relationships with women who sleep around so they are naturally wary of seeming too 'easy'.

It's all just very sound tactics really.

PS. Ignore all the hysterical squealing about you being a rapist, you had to see it coming though.

Well, Mr. Stiffy Pants, why don't you just tell us what we SHOULD do when we want to attract a guy....... since dressing nice or looking good just seems to wake up your little brain instead of your rational brain, HOW would you prefer us to let you know we are seeking your companionship?

I am just not convinced that your ignorance concerning women and what really matters to them is in any way the woman's fault. Seems to me they make things very clear - you just refuse to understand or accept it.

Just because you're attracted to someone and you get into a relationship with them doesn't automatically mean they have to sleep you simply because that's all you like about them.

End the relationship or put with with her demands. Pretty ******* simple.

Well, quite simply "BECAUSE IT WORKS". Not that I agree, but it is a fact of life that we are visually stimulated. Substance is a whole different matter. I dont understand females who do what you speak of; maybe they didn't think what they were doing would work?