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Should i come out of the closet or would i be shunned by the church?

I Am not gay!!!!!!!I am an atheist who was a christian, i went to a mennonite church which i still attend. i don't want to leave because i love the feel of community and agree with their philosophies... except for god. i feel wrong lying about my beliefs but i really don't want to leave this church. how could i handle this?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    It seems a little hypocritical to go to church and not believe.

  • 1 decade ago

    Can you have it both ways? I am an Atheist and sometimes go to church but it has nothing to do with God. Atheist do not wear scarlet letters on our foreheads, I see no reason to state your beliefs if you feel you will be shunned and do not want to be.

    The other side of me says that you should NEVER hide who you are or what you believe...BE REAL! BE YOU! In the end, its your decision.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If your an former christian I'd say leave the church. Except for God? Their whole reason for being is God! How can you justify going to church if your an atheist?

  • I think you should go to your Priest and ak for counseling and may be instructions. You should stay in the Church and seek God He is there! You felt Him once and you will find Him again!

    John 3:16,17,18 can lead you to a closer walk with Him and study of your own copy of your Holy Bible.

    It sounds like your Love of God has grown cold and that you need to rekindle the flame as jesus said that you should!

    Source(s): The Holy and Inerrant Word of God!
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    meh I had to go through that. It really depends on your church. My church was totally cool about it. At first there was a little bit of a shock, but I still go time to time and now nobody treats me any different.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    what is a mennonite church? then I will answer.

  • 1 decade ago

    well, i know we all have a gut feeling of what is right and wrong.

    if it feels right and good, then do it

    if it doesn't feel right and good in your soul, it probably isn't for your soul.

    maybe you're supposed to be there to find your love for God again.

    good luck to you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i just would not go to church.

  • 1 decade ago

    talk to the preist or pastor or watever

  • 1 decade ago

    Stand up for your lousy beliefs

    They may be lousy but their yours

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