I don't get turned on by masturbation?

Everyone can (and everyone deserves to) enjoy the pleasure of orgasm, including everyone who chooses to enjoy it alone instead of (or in addition to) having sex with someone else.

Masturbation is having sex with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second.

One thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:

http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbation/mastur...

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Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.

An orgasm is all the things you feel and all the things that happen with your body at the peak of sexual arousal and pleasure. It's a reflex we're all born with (just like knee jerks and sneezes) that our bodies have in response to sexual stimulation. You will *definitely* know when you have one. There's nothing else anywhere in human experience that feels that way.

It can take a girl or woman anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm. Both of these are pretty unusual but perfectly normal, and anything in between is just fine... and most can get there in much less than 10 minutes when they masturbate.

Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you.

During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee). The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is.

(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable.)

As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, and you might feel sort of like having a nap... or like just lying there and letting your mind drift.

Have fun with it and don't worry. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you... especially because you'll know what to tell (better yet, to show) your man about how to please you when you eventually decide you're ready to have sex.

As you can see, it didn't get deleted. Some women do find it hard (no pun intended) to get turned on by masturbation. If your inserting an object this can be not the right thing to do. Fingering the clitoris would be better. Masturbation even for men can sometimes not be full filling or a turn on. You really have to need to be in the mood. For some people it's a matter of watching porn or something erotic that can get them in the mood or even talk, such as phone sex, or Cyber sex. Just the act of masturbation is not going to do it, with out some inspiration and real desire.

It's perfectly normal. A lot of women just don't get turned on by masturbating. You can try to keep experimenting, but in the mean time get some action if your horny :] haha!

Merry Christmas!

first you have to get deeper into your own head and find something you like,,something that pleases you ,,a face a leg ,,maybe younger or older,,than just relax and let your mind move around the thought,,it may take you some time to develop a fantasy in your head but its worth the try

its just whole pleasure u can try with vibrators and epolre sumthin u get turned on by cus r giving urself aint nuthin wrong with you keep doing what you think it its normal xxxx merry chrismas

Well the purpose of masturbating is to relieve sexual tension, so if you're not already turned on, there's no point in doing it.

Check out this site it has everything you need.

http://www.teenhealthfx.com/answers/Sexuality/subc...

umm try a sex vibrator toy?