Boyfriend won't celebrate holidays.?

Did it ever occur to you that you are with the wrong boyfriend? If he is that way now he will never change. Kick him to the curb. There is something wrong with this toad.

You know, the great thing about being in a relationship is that when differences arise, it is the perfect opportunity to show how "reasonable" and "respectful" we can be in the relationship. Your boyfriend is uncomfortable celebrating holidays; Christmas, Thanksgiving, Halloween, Fourth of July, Valentine's Day, Birthdays, etc, he is not uncomfortable with YOU, just the celebrated holidays. I am sure that his religious beliefs play a strong part in that. But, look on the positive side, you have a boyfriend that is an integrity keeper, regardless of what other people are doing, even his wonderful girlfriend. That is a strong quality to have in a partner, one who has integrity, thus he will also prove to be a loyal partner. There are 365 days in the year, what would happen if you celebrated everyday like it was a special day? I am sure that you and him can respect each others views about the holidays and create a win-win situation where mutual respect, love and dignity comes to the front of your relationship. Just my thoughts.........

Have you ever asked him why or what kind of bad memories he has?

Did his family celebrate them? Some people don't because they know they have pagan origins and not really christian. Do you think this could be the reason he really doesn't want too? Try to find out what he is talking about in a calm, caring manner.

I would let it go. Give him time. He may or may not open up, but I don't think forcing anything will help. Just explain to your family honestly that he doesn't care for the holiday, but don't give them a lot of detail.

He should go to counseling. He needs to deal with his problems, but he isn't doing that. If he needs help, he should get it.

Your family is not being very understanding. Holidays don't need to be jammed down anybody's throat.

You don't have to explain to your family any more than, he is unavailable for the holiday. His feelings are his own and valid. If they persist just ask them to please respect his privacy just like he would respect theirs.

He kind of owes you an explanation why as you are defending him to your family for his odd behaviour...

He should share it with you at least...

I agree with the first comment

sounds like chandler bing off of friends

agree with amanda