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Sex, after having twins... How soon?

I know this may have a little To much info. in it.

I just had twins on the 21st and my sex drive is going crazy!!

I know it's only been a week... But I didn't have to get stitches... and I'm done bleeding. So do you think it would be okay to have sex since I didn't have stitches and since my bleeding has already stopped?

I'm so afraid to have sex after having twins and I already have an 18 month old boy.. So of course we have condoms.. LOL.. Yeah anyway,I'm getting into too much detail here...

The Q is do you think it is ok to have sex so soon since I didn't have stitches and the bleeding has stopped?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    After I had my twins I waited at least a minimum of 2 weeks. But if you feel your ready then I would say it should be okay. I think its really up to the person. And you should go by what your Dr. has instructed you to do. Kudos to you after having twins in one week and you got that spark back.... I was tired as hell.... lol

    Source(s): Mommy of Twins
  • 1 decade ago

    probably not. Wait at least 2 weeks more to make sure the bleeding has completely stopped. I know mine would stop and start again. Plus I wouldn't think it would feel very good. You're probably not healed enough down there and still very big.

  • 5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should be checked out by your doctor before going forward with anything like sex. You don't wanna hurt yourself!

  • 1 decade ago

    wow. i'd use the Pill AND condoms. you have too many kids too soon. anyway, you need to wait till your body heals, and the doctor gives you the okay.

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