any bad friendship experiences? a friend whom hurt you so much? who & why? share it!!!?

When i was 17, I met this guy, we'll call him "Joe." Joe and i hit it off, and we were introduced by a mutual friend, "Amy." Joe and i hung out, hooked up, and decided to be in a relationship. His exact words were, "I have fooled around with a couple girls, and i realized i just want to be with you."

About three months later, it came out that those couple of girls were Amy and "Theresa" and they didn't "fool around," THEY HAD A THREESOME!

Normally, i would not have really cared about a guy's past, but they all hooked up AFTER he and I had started hanging out, and Amy and Theresa both knew it, they were two of my best friends. When confronted, Theresa claimed it was long before I even knew Joe, but Amy was more truthful when caught and said that they knew i liked him (a lot), but she did apologize.

I didn't speak to either of them for the entirety of our senior year, and only recently began talking to them slowly again. I am not trying to become either of their friends again, just keeping in touch with old acquaintances. As far as Joe goes, he and i dated for a bout two years, and we both ended up cheating. He and i are still ok friends.

But yeah...That was the worst thing any friend had ever done to me...Knowing full well i was into someone, turned around and f*cked him. Now, i am in a super relationship with a wonderful man who I am going to marry. :)

Thanks for letting me vent!!!

How about a brother? He has so much anger in him he leaves a path of destruction behind him. He does not care who he hurts, if they are happy and he can do damage he does. He has caused this family to get totally destroyed nobody talks to each other anymore, he reminds me of an old drunk, that is miserable so he wants to drag them down too. He did. His own son and daughter cannot stand him.

I think it's really rare to find a true friend, and I am very lucky to have 2 best friends. We live now in different cities, but we still stay connected. Sometimes ,persons that are far from you ,can be more close than the ones that stay every day near you.

In my class ,there was a popular girl( I wont tell her name, so I will call her "x"). Everybody wanted to be her friend, and considered her the best friend somebody could ever had. Of course, I was also a fan of her( and now I can't believe that I was such an idiot). I helped her whit everything, I said that all her clothes are great, even if they weren't so cool...Then, finally ,I was her best friend, became popular...and her puppet . Everything was perfect ,until the last month of that school year. One of her friends heard from somebody that she said some bad things about her. X didn't recognize, even if that was true, and made me to say that things about her friend! Then she told everyone that( and of course, made the things more tragic)!

After that, I realized that a true friend is not somebody that makes you feel something else than who you are. A true friend makes you feel proud of who you really are deep inside.

I was friends with a girl for about 2 years, never fought, we decided to live together. She broke up with a boyfriend she had over the summer and was depressed. About the same time, I got a boyfriend.

All she started doing was complaining that I was rubbing it in her face every time he came over to visit. She would also "run into" us at a restaurant or movie(it was a small town) if she knew we would be there, and invite herself to sit with us. I could have dealt with that, though. What really destroyed our friendship is that she began talking behind my back to mutual friends, saying that she found condom wrappers all over the place and telling people that I had slept with my boyfriend after only two weeks, trying to make me look like a slut. It was all lies, because he and I hadn't even HAD sex at that point.

I don't know why she was so malicious towards my relationship. I told her that I no longer had any interest in being friends. When I did that, she started crying and told me that she felt like she had been replaced and was sorry, but I still refused to be friends with her anymore. She should have come to me with the problem instead of spreading awful rumors to people that I know. Those people know now that it wasn't true, but at the time she did serious damage to my reputation.

I never forgave her, and I don't think I should have.

ya lots of bad friends. it doesnt matter who did it. but they did it, they called me horrible names and spread gossip about me, it happpens to everyone and it sux