Help me... what should I do? ?

hmm, I would suggest getting a secret vasectomy and pretend you really want kids. I am in the opposite situation, my girlfriend doesn't want kids so i told her I had a vasectomy, Ha

If you don't want kids then for god's sake don't have any.

The most frustrated, unhappy people I know are the ones who had kids by "accident" or who let a partner talk them into a baby.

Having a child is something you should be ECSTATIC to do. If you're not thrilled to be having one, then DON'T.

This is something you really need to sit down and talk to your girlfriend about. She needs to understand just how much you don't want kids and that you don't intend to change your mind. This may be a serious relationship issue for the two of you. There are a lot of people in the world who do not feel their lives will be complete without having kids. If your girlfriend is one of those people, then she deserves to know your feelings on the subject.

Well if you want to keep your gf of 5 years, you need to stop being a infant and think of someone else other than your self. You can not base your life on the doom and gloom that others spew. Talk with your gf and see if not having a baby with her is a deal breaker. Are you willing to have her leave you, to have a child or two with someone else? Children grow up faster than you think, they can be a great reward. And if the world blows up, so what, we will all go together. But on the other side of the coin, if what they say doesn't happen - you could have a very enjoyable life, or a very sad lonely one. Think about it. Good Luck!

After 5 years your girlfriend is looking for new excitements. There is something going wrong with your sexual life...

Take her to night clubs, swingers clubs. Offer her threesomes, foursomes. These new experiences will help her to forget this crazy idea of having kids this tough times.

I think Rude Dude has the right idea! But honestly I would seriously reconsider my relationship with this so called girlfriend, she sounds really self centered! I mean what kind of nerve does she have asking you for kids?!

Don't have kids.

It's selfish of her to ask for kids when you obviously don't want any. If you have kids when your not ready, two things will happen:

1)The relationship with your girlfriend will probably fail

2) You wont love your child, which will lead to dire problems down the road for the kid.

If your girlfriend really wants to start a family, she will either have to wait until your ready or find another man.

Sure, so tell her this so she can find someone more suitable for her and quit wasting her time with you.

wel my advice is .talk to her about it maybe she'll understand.

you should also think about concidering it. learn to like them a bit.or ecleast try

hope i helped :)

Michaelaa

cheat on her and come to the dark side