How do I tell them I am taken?

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I know these 3 women from my past job...

one is seeing some guy and moved away. She told me that she had to move because being around me was tempting her to leave her man so she moved so she wouldn't be tempted anymore after I told her I was seeing someone. 

second one is married with children and she told me on several occasions that she wanted to come to her house after her husband and kids went to work/school. I told her I was taken so she quit her job and started to work at some bank. she said the pain of not being with me was too much for her.

the third is not married but has children and she too asked to come to my place late at night on many occasions. but I told her that I was taken and so she put in a transfer and now works for a different location but still with the company I work for. 

these women still find ways to contact me... other then changing all my info is something I can say to them to tell them I'm to much of a man for them?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You slept with the second one 4 times!  That is completely unfair to the other two girls and very sneaky...such sneaky behavior is that of a closet terrorist!  I also think you may be a closet gay to want to turn down 3 female coworkers!  I may know a nice gay to hook you up with ;0)

I say contact these girls and have a foursome though.

Rude Dude · Answer

I agree with jayne, it is not fair that you slept with one 4 times and the other two only once.  

The only decent and respectable thing to do is to let all 4 girls compete over you.  I would do a bachelor meets fear factor type of thing.  My guess is the first one would win.

blackjoe77 · Answer

If I were you I would give each of them one day a week. First I would call Mrs. Monday, second Mrs. Wednesday, third - Mrs. Friday for example. And still have 4 free days for another adventures...

skb_leo · Answer

you're contradicting yourself by telling them that you're taken but still sleep with them.  you need to tell them that it was a one time thing and that you are commited to the person that you are currently dating.

if they try to contact you, don't answer them.  they will eventually let go.

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How do I tell them I am taken?

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