Should I stay with my girlfriend or not? Opinions please!?

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I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 9 months. I am in love with her. However, for the last 2 or 3 months we have been having more and more frequent arguments, and it has come to the stage where despite my love for her (and I know she loves me), where I wonder if we are right for each other. I'm no longer sure if she is the one.

I'm not stupid. I'm a 22 year old man. But I feel I need other people's thoughts and opinions on this one. Its beginning to really get me down.
Should I wait and see if things improve, or should I cut and run, knowing I'll hurt her (and myself) in the process? I'm so confused about it all.
Thanks

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Things ain't working, pack up and move on. It's called evolution in action, you'll find a better partner believe me.

BeedleBop · Answer

To be honest you are the only one that can answer this as it's your life we are dealing with here.

It might not be that you need to break up but discuss it with her,discuss why you think that your relationship has turned like this.

But don;t make any rash decisions, think about it hard, you'll regret it if you don;t weigh up your options.

I'm sorry i couldn't have been more of use to you, but i hope i helped a bit

Good luck

x.Hannahh.x · Answer

My ex boyfriend felt like you did, and he finished it with me.
Its almost exactly like my situation.
He finished it with me thinking Id be happier in the end of it. 
He tells me he wishes he had given us time apart, and also says it was one of the most painful things he has ever put himself through.
Hes a changed person since he split with me and is now unsure about whether or not he wants to get back into the relationship, he says he regrets it but is too scared to get back together because of the pain he went through.

But I dont think you should finish it with her, you need to talk about problems and resolve them slowly, take time away.
Dont do it if your not sure

Tracey N · Answer

If you really love this girl & she loves you, don't throw away what you share together. Relationships have bad times as well as good times. If you work through the bad times together it makes your relationship stronger. Stick with it & things should get better.
Good luck!

♫ ♥green heather butterfly♥ ♫ · Answer

Are you having enough time apart? Do you trust each other? Is it you? Is it her? Relationships are never easy but you always end up finding a way!

Anonymous · Answer

if your not completely ready to let her go -DONT you may end up regretting it later and things might get complicated so stay a while longer and see how things go until you know FOR SURE that your ready to say goodbye
good luck :)

Jazzychic - Dallas, TX · Answer

I guess it would depend on what the arguments are about and what's going on in your lives right now.

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