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Laith asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

How do I get her to open up to me?

There is a girl that I want to talk to more and get to know better. At the moment I talk to her everyday, but I am always the one to start the conversation and it's really hard to get her to say anything to keep the conversation going.

If I ask her something like how her day went, she will just say something like "It went alright" and that's all. Most of the time all I get from her are "lol"s and what not.

I would think that she just doesn't want to talk to me, but she almost always replies. She has told me that she wants to be there for me, and on a number of occasions she has said "I love you" (I know she only means it as a friend). These aren't things someone would say if they didn't want to talk to you.

The only times I can ever get her to ask me a question, or state an opinion is if I am having problems with something in my life and she is trying to help me.

How do I get her to start actually talking to me?

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well ask her different things maybe you ask her things that she doesnt feel like talking about ask her her fav. food what she likes to do for fun like ill have to know what you guys are talkin about to help in in the moment.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe ask her what she would like to talk about. :)

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