Big dilemma, Please I need more answers 10 points for answer!!!?

well I can see why this is a problem... But in my opinion a relationship is only a true happy relationship if there is no trouble with anything going on about it... Like you should be happy to be with this person completely and they should be absolutely sure that they want to be with you... If they say maybe then its going to start out bad.

I find it simple to get over men and I never understood why girls have so much trouble. All you need to do is focus on the positives and forget about the negatives... like a positive would be that being single is fun and you are free to do what ever you please. You two are obviously not in love so it should not be to difficult... Start dating again and leave him alone... As for the attitude... When you feel like sassing to someone you need to stop and think before you say it and ask yourself questions like "What would I do if someone said this to me?" and try to learn to be reasonable.

That's all I got... And I hope the best because it kills me to see girls in boy problems...

One item in your list sends up red flares: "He’s saying he isn't ready for a relationship just yet." If he is telling you this, don't expect him to be ready anytime soon. You already have three years invested in the relationship and it's not going where you want it to. I wouldn't waste my time telling him he needs to make a decision. He has already made the decision. He has told you he's not ready for relationship.

The underlying tone of your post tells me that the relationship a strained on a number of subjects other than commitment. One of the hardest things to determine in a relationship is when it is time to cut your losses and run. Personally I think you're there. There are an awful lot of other guys in the world. Why waste your time with this one? By your own admission " I still have a thing for him but on the other hand I just want to let him go." You will eventually learn that you will always have a thing for your old flames but that doesn't mean you are both good for each other. It's time to let him go.

It sounds to me like you didn't get it figured out in all that time, so it probably won't just smooth over and work out. Impeccable communication is the key to a healthy and happy relationship. If you can find someone who is open to you, and you are comfortable being honest with them even if they won't like what you're going to say, then it might work out. If you already have communication problems, then it's over before it started. Give it one more try, and if all is not clear then it's time to move on. Good luck!

Well I'd say don't bother seeing him anymore, it is difficult to change the mind set from FwB to Bf&Gf and that usually gets messed up if one person starts having feelings for the other at different times. If it were meant to be then it would have happened on its own naturally switching from FwB to BF&Gf without either noticing until it had happened.

You have half battle won. The next thing to do is ask yourself can you two really talk? Sorry but it is not you BiZns who he been with. If you could walk away 15X's in 3Yrs. How old are you two? For now stay being friends, because you both need to be clear and understanding and able to Without communication you have no relationship, Oh don't for get honesty & Trust.

well if u know that u hav a slight attitude problem then just sit down with him and talk it all out and probably apologize....ul feel better after doing that

communcation can be a big problem so make it a point that u want to be with him and just sort out everything for once

okay. i would tell this guy Straight up how you feel and ask him how he feels. if he likes you then try the relationship out.

if he don't like you and you guys are always fighting then you don't want to be int hat kind of relationship. if he not meant to be then move on and find a new guy to find love with..

I might go with him. It could be worth it to try and make it work, it seems like you like this guy and in my experience, a good relationship consists of two FRIENDS.

Also, if part of you wants to let him go, you're "insured" in a way for any heartbreak. You'd have nothing to lose.

Stay friends, if you can, but give up the benefits. If he really wants to be with you, that will become clear in the fullness of time.

To be honest the boy sounds like a bit of a fool!!!!

Why is he joking about asking you out?

Arrrgghh...boys!!!

Do NOT apologize! He's the one who has been playiing you around making you look desperate.

He's not worth it babe!

Either tell him EVERYTHING you feel and don't be blunt!

or distance yourself away from him & lose all contact and find someone better :)

You deserve it! :D