Would you ever be able to forgive your best friend if you found out she was in Love with your husband?

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What would you do if you found out that your best friend and your husband had been in Love far before you were friends with her and before you were married. She knew you were in love with him too so she stayed away for many years because of this. (she knew how much you wanted him and she wanted you to be happy...really...and you kinda knew that in your heart.) However, upon returning into your life years later, they are still in Love...(you and he are separated). What would you do? how do you think you would feel. what do you think they should do?

(you still Love your husband, and you are crazy about your best friend too!)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

its one or the other.............

Stranger In My Heart · Answer

Woa!!!! hmmm..."you kinda knew in your heart?" ok, let's see: 
two women love the same man
one leaves because she knew her friend loves the guy
the guy marries the one friend, but he is in love with the other
years later she comes back
the couple is separated
the husband and friend are still in love
the friends still love each other...
I JUST DON'T KNOW!!!!!
sorry...can't figure this one out 4U!

Cat · Answer

Actually, i've never been married but all of my 'best friends' have had a crush on any guy i've dated!  Once my best friend started playing little flirty games with my boyfriend and then later on that night, he asked me if I'd enjoy a threesome.  UH, NO!!!!  This carried on for a few months so i stopped being her friend (until my bf and i separated, heh).  And then my next boyfriend, my OTHER best friend tried to get with him over and over, even when she had a bf herself, and even made up rumors that caused this terrible triangle of fighting

Anonymous · Answer

I had this happen a few years ago. Only I came home from work early and caught them in bed together. It was hell to lose your hubby and best friend. That was years ago. If I see her we speak. I even invited her to my wedding, but we are not close at all. And I'd never leave her alone around my hubby I have now.

Anonymous · Answer

Yikes.. I would never speak to either of them ever again. I know that's not mature but who cares. I would probably beat the crap out of both of them if I found them in the bed together, starting with my husband.

PeachPie · Answer

I would bash her skank face in with a cast iron skillet

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