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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Somebody, for the love of God give me an opinion. ?

This is the email I got from my friend, who rejected me and I love. She is depressed. She wont tell me why, I think its because of her ex boyfriend. But she says it isn't. She offered me herself like a year ago but I am really shy and wasn't ready for a relationship. Now I am in complete love with her. Shes depressed and never wants to hang out with me even as a friend. I have done everything for her and she explained to me about how I don't give her a spark. Her depression is causing me great pain. I think if she wasn't depressed she would like me like she used too. Time is running out for me to do but I don't want to obsesses and call her all the time. I'm twenty years old and have never been in a relationship before. I don't think I like this. I know you guys will say "there's other fish in the sea" but I want her to be happy. This is the most complex problem I have ever had, and I know I need to figure it out myself, but what are your opinions. Anyways, the following is the last email she sent me. Some are worse than others this one makes me really confused. Now shes questioning her sexuality? I know she likes guys she used to tell me she was attracted to me and I had the pleasure of watching her screw around with three other guys. I wish I could just pretend I wasnt intrested in anyone and walk away from the problem like her. (she even said she was walking away from a problem, but didn't tell me what.) So, this is her last email.

its not even about him. I am over him. i have been i just wanted you to know ican relate and that i know i broke your heart.

I did nt want that thats why i am sorry. otherwise, im a lesbian. ok there, i dont like guys. ithink they are stupid and lame. also, i want a cinnomon cookkie.

bye friend

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can somebody post a comment just saying they read this? please. I don't know why but it would make me feel better! I can't sleep and I think we both need to go to a mental hospital.

Update:

Wow, Yahoo answers is actually helping me out. I want to quit loving her and she explained she doesn't feel the same way I do. But I think thats only because shes depressed. I don't think she is seeing anyone. How can I stay away from somebody I care so much about!? I want to buy her a doctor. I want to get myself to a doctor....

Update 2:

There is so much that could go into this. She is in a Jewish family just living with her mom. When I met her I lived in an apartment above her. She can be bipolar sometimes and fights with her mom, they both freak out. I think I might tell her mom that I love her daughter, and just go away and see if her mom can convince her to get a grip.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    STAY FAR FAR AWAY

    sorry but your friend is dealing with major issues in her life. I know that losing a friend is tough, very tough, especially one that you have feelings for, but its dragging you down as you say and its obvious that your presence in her life is affecting her.

    let her go man...its life and it hurts, but sometimes its the only way.

  • 5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Wow, that chick sounds wack bruh. You seem fine, but she really needs to talk to someone about her mental issues. There is also the chance that she could just be making you think that stuff while she has a bf. Girls can get pretty desperate to keep other guys a secret so they can keep another dude as second string.

    Too many females in the world would rather play lame games than to just admit to a guy that they just don't want them. They create phrases like "I don't want to ruin our friendship".

    Stay Cool

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  • 1 decade ago

    Sticky situation...........Girls go through things all the time nd being with one is like an emotional rollercoaster. She knows shes killing you with her indecisive answers and her shortness, and she understands why you're upset because shes taken a walk in your shoes with her other boyfriend.

    if it's meant to be i PROMISE itll find its way, and if not, theres someone around the corner for you.

    when i was depressed over my boyfriend it was literally weeks until i met my soul mate who turned my life around.

    give her time. i promise itll work out and she'll realize you are the one whos been there for her and cared about her more

    can you answer mine? no one seems to want to

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  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like she has alot of problems. It is really nice you wanting to help her, and the best thing to do is get her to a DR. Also if her parents are around, talk to them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I get the feeling she doesn't feel the same away about you as you do to her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Like Chris Crocker say: LEAVE HER ALONE.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This is interesting.

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