How do i get him to stop (kind of long but need help)?

Question

im 17. my brother is 20 and he brings his best friend over a lot. ive known him since i was 14 and ive never felt uncomfortable around him before. but for the past few weeks whenever he comes over something happens. i was sitting on the couch watching tv with a blanket and he came downstairs and sat next to me and i thought it was ok but he put his hand on my leg under the blanket. i shook it off and he didnt do it again. But in another incident i was in my room laying on the bed and he came and sat next to me and we talked for a few minutes.then he leaned down and kissed me and i told him to stop but all he did was move on top of me and run his hand up my shirt. i pushed him and he just grabbed my wrists and held them and put his other hand down my pants. when he left the room i was so freaked out i just shut the door and locked it and didnt come out til he left. whenever he came over after that i just stayed in my room and kept the door locked but i was asleep one night and forgot to lock it and he came in and did the same thing except he was trying to get my pants off and i yelled for my brother. he freaked out and left.my mom is never home and my brother and i arent exactly close so?i tried to tell my brother but all he did was tell his friend to stay away from me. so now what?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Tell another grown up that you trust and tell your mom for sure. Ask whats his face what the f when you're around your bro.

Εlectra · Answer

What you're going through right now isnt easy and I understand how you feel.

Dont wait for any results. Make sure youre not home when he comes around and next time you see him go straight to your room and lock your door. If his behavior doesnt change talk to your brother again.

Best of Luck

Triple Jay · Answer

Tell everyone. Also always keep your distance. Be aware of your surroundings. Make sure there's always something you can do to get away from him in that room if you're in the room with him. Be ahead of the game. Always be prepared if you know he's in the room or if he's coming. Worst come to worst just punch him in the balls as hard as you can. Ain't no coming back from that. That'll give you some time to get away and get help.

Anonymous · Answer

I would def. say start like really saying NO this is not okay and if necessary, punch him in the face. I"m not kidding. This isn't right. Just like, go out when he's there or leave the room or whatever. 
OR stay in close proximity to your brother, maybe.

Anonymous · Answer

You're like 2 steps away from being raped. That's a criminal offense. Tell him you're gonna call the cops if he does it again, and if he starts ever again, just call the cops. Straight up. You don't deserve that

Anonymous · Answer

Tell your mom! I know that it would be awkward, but seriously! That's terrible! Ask your brother to talk to him, and tell your brother that you don't want him to come over to your house anymore. Hopefully he will understand. Your brothers friend is a pervert and he doesn't need to be around you. Please tell someone!

Anonymous · Answer

That kind of sounds like rape in a way. I don't know, but hit him in the balls next time he touches you. or tell your mom whats going on, maybe she'll yell at his friend next time he comes over

Ms.Britt_nay · Answer

I've kind of been in the same situation.
Do whatever you must do to not be alone with him.
If he's there visiting your brother, then try to stick around your brother. 

If that doesn't work, threaten him. lol.

Mrs. Brightside. · Answer

this "friend" sounds really screwed up.
im sorry you had to go through that!
when this guy comes over, don't let yourself be alone with him.
also, make sure your brother tells you when he's coming over so you can maybe go out with a friend, or invite a friend over.
 good luck.  (:

immabirdrawr · Answer

technically you've been molested. and if you are still in school (as i hope you are) i would set up a meeting with a counsler or teacher you trust and talk to them. your teachers are given special training to help kids like you. 

dont take this lightly. even if this friend stops messing with you if you let him get away with it he will do it to somebody elses sister - who knows how old.

Trending News

How do i get him to stop (kind of long but need help)?

20 Answers