My boyfriend and I got into an argument yesterday. So how I do keep from pushing him away? ?

If your sense of love and happiness depends on how he accepts or doesn't accept you, or if your sense of love is built on a notion that love means romance or attraction, then you're not grieving the loss of him, but the loss of the ideal that love means what you think it means.

If you're worried you should get some relationship counseling. I had similar issues at the start of our relationship and the counsellor actually said we shouldn't be together. She was right but we didn't listen. We still argue and the romance and attraction has long gone. It's got too involved and too deep to part now. There's so much invested years later, that it would feel like a real death to be apart. We need each other. I think that's real love, it's a bond that's stronger than the arguments or expectations we have of one another. We have learned this through much pain. What we need though is to be kinder. Start there, it's never too late to be kind. Your love for him should never depend on how he measures up. I've learned that much. I don't want to criticise you, this is how I'm learning to not "push him away"... still.

Time heals all wounds, ask for some space, figure it out. Good Luck

when the agurment nis over let it be over don't nag him if that is what you are doing