How to get Wife back?

i agree with jetp's answer. it is very sexy for the husband to do things without being told. if my husband did that he would get it every other day!!!

Try being her friend and getting to the bottom of the problem. Speaking from experience as a mom and wife...sex is usually a last priority when the kids are screaming and dinner needs to be cooked and the baby has spit up and the floor needs mopped ..etc etc so on and so forth...maybe give her some of your time so she can remember why she is with you.

She's got more than she can handle

why don't you try to help her out some

once a week get a baby sitter, and take

her out for some dinner & dancing, rent

a motel room for the night, and make love

just the two of you - put some fun in your life.

Having children can take a lot out of a woman. I really don't think shes not interested but maybe more tired and worn down instead. First you need to talk with her one on one with no interruptions. Maybe over a romantic dinner (don't expect sex). Be sure to express yourself in a understanding way or she will just get defensive.

Second make sure it isn't medical. Having children sometimes can really mess with a woman's hormones. Having some simple blood work at your local doctors office can rule this out.

Third....Take her back in time.... Get a friend or loved one to keep the kids overnight...Take her to the place you first met,first kissed to the place where you first said I loved you.( Don't expect sex) Send her flowers on Thursday for no reason but just because its Thursday.Leave her notes on the pillow next to her. Call her through out the day just to see how things are going. ( don't expect sex) Make her fall in love with you all over again and in return you will get to know just how wonderful she really is.

MOST IMPORTANT...Do all of this not for sexual pleasure but just for the simple reason you love her. When she realizes that your not just in it for the sex she will want you more.(Expect a lot of sex)

It could be that she is just too tired? Having kids and responsibilities around the house are enough to wear a woman out such that she simply has no energy and is mentally occupied. Maybe if you try taking tasks off her shoulders, it would help and allow her to relax more, hence get in the mood.

Romance her; tell her you love her; she's beautiful; the love of your life. Leave her notes, send her flowers. Help her with the housework, the kids; open the door for her. Don't pressure her about the sex; it will come after everything else is fixed.

Try it for 6 weeks; you'll see a marked improvement in your relationship.

When your wife is cleaning, walk over and gently rub her shoulders and take over the job she was doing. Put dishes away. Keep the baby busy while she soaks in the tub. But don't stop being "nice" after sex or she will soon learn your game.

how many kids?

Is she tired - taking care of kids is a lot of work - you want her to have some energy left for you - try helping around the house more - there is nothing sexier than a guy who can take on some of the responsibilities without being asked.

You know its funny how women are after having children are.. Express your concern to her.. women want to be massaged and pampered.. try treating her for a while and asking nothing in return.. when its time to turn on the romance that will work.. i was the same way after i had my children.. my husband would get angry and it bothered my because that made him less attractive to me.. i was just tired..

When was the last time you gave her a break, took care of the kids for an evening, gave her some time to herself? There's your problem, right there.