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Girl I met, then found on myspace: Should I contact her?

Here's the story. Snowed really bad here in Seattle a month ago. On the bus to work, this cute girl sat next to me. Made some small talk about the snowy situation (city in chaos, bus extra crowded and taking forever, us having to go to work regardless). Said bye and got off at my stop.

Fast-forward 3 weeks or so, and I see her at the restaurant that I work at. I stop by her table and say hi, ask for her name, which I didn't get the time before, and talk for a minute. There was definitely chemistry, but I felt hesitant to press it further and ask her for her number because I was at work and it's a little unprofessional. I caught her looking around the restaurant as she was leaving and I immediately regretted not doing so.

I asked one of my co-workers if I should try to look her up on myspace to get a hold of her. She said no, that it would be a little stalker-ish. (strangely enough, she said to go online and look at her profile but not to contact her, which sounds more like stalking to me)

So this was about two weeks ago, and tonight, while sitting around bored, I searched for her on myspace, and surprisingly found her immediately. Kind of amazing considering there's probably 500+ girls with her name in my city.

Should I try getting a hold of her?

Update:

FT, I'd call her but I never got her number.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    If you really think that she might be the right person for you, then you should go for it. Try to not have any regrets.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes I think you should talk to her. You could tell her you were just searching random profiles and thought she looked familiar and thought you would say hi and see how she's doing!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It kind of sound depress and more like a stalker to me... Why won't you just call her up instead?

  • 1 decade ago

    i say go for it! life is short

    unless you want to take your chances and wait another 3 weeks

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes if you're in love with her

  • 1 decade ago

    contact her online, if she does not come into eat anymore, draw your own conclusions, she does not like you , or you food is crap.

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