I need help...bf going through a hard time....?

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So my boyfriend is going to be finishing school in a few months (college). And he's really going through a hard time of not knowing who he is, what he wants to do, how he's going to do it, etc. I really want to help him but I know I can't figure it out for him. I feel like I can't even find the right things to say. 

Any advice on how I could possibly help?

inspectedbysurgeon · Answer

I'm going through something similar to him as I'm finishing up school. My best advice might be to do some research on jobs he could get with his degree? I can't honestly think of too much else. Possibly look in to some career counseling if you can't find too much on it yourself.

Miss E · Answer

You can't really help him out. He needs some time to get to understand what he really wants from life. All you can do is stand by him, understand him and try your best not to give him a hard time.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him to NEVER get married,  NEVER have kids either

If he does, all that he worked hard to achieve will be stolen by some dirt bag GIRL and her divorce attorney.

He will lose his kids, car, house, and have to pay alimony forever.

If he avoids marriage, he will be truly happy and successful in life.

EDIT:  Oh come on... Have you ever seen a guy that's been divorced?  It destroys their life, just trying to spare him some pain.  Sheesh, why so uptight anyway?

Varnoh · Answer

Hey babe, I think you cannot choose for him but you can guide him by saying what are the options are there in front of him and tell him each and ever think about that and make sure he takes the decision this all you can do hunnie

manekoran · Answer

SarahAnn...always remember that behind the GLORY of a man is always ANCHORED by a women that love and supported him...i m sure both of you will figure out the next ''MOVE''.....best of luck both of you.

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