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In love with two... I don't know which one to choose?

Ok, so over the summer at scope (a summer activity thing) I met this guy... I wanted to hate him but for some reason I started to really like him... I can't figure out why, i mean all he did was tease me, and he's (was) really pretty ugly... But I still felt so attached to him, and I hated myself for it. I am pretty sure that he liked me, he flirted with me and bugged me about nothing.

So then when the school year started, there was this other guy. He wore glasses, which I usually don't go for, but I felt attached to him too. I thought it would go away, but I still like him now. I used to heave regrets about it, but now I don't, so most of my friends know I like him. I started to really really like him, to the point where I don't care if he picks someone other than me, if that makes him happy.

So I went to the skating rink (spelling?) today. I saw this guy who i felt attached to... My first thought was that it was the guy who i met over the summer, but I didn't know. He had a totally diferent haircut, and even hair color, but it still felt like him. I did some "investigating" on him, and figured out it was the guy I met over the summer! I think he knew who I was too, because he skated slower when i started to fall further behind him, and looked at me a lot, and laughed when i was acting stupid (And we were all being weird and talking in 2nd person...). But he skated with a bunch of other girls and stuff, so I didn't know what to think... But about when I started to noticed the other girls and him, I felt jealous. Then I realized I liked him, without denying it as much. We didn't talk at all, but when i fell and crashed into him (on accident...) my heart was beating faster than it's ever done before, even with the guy I like at my school. So I have no clue which one I like better... it's so hard to choose!

I have 6 classes with the one I go to school with, and I know hime so much better. but he has a girlfriend right now...

The guy I knew over the summer (Did I mention we only really knew eachother for 3 weeks?) and saw at the skating ring,might have a girlfriend. Aside from that, I don't know hardly anything about him. I do know that he's 2 or 3 years older than me though. And he looks SO much better now. I'll see him for 3 more weeks during the summer, maybe see eachother more if I decide I like him best.

Really, I'm stuck now. I have loved the one at my school for so much longer than most people at my school can keep a crush. (One sided love?) I might be able to give him up to another girl, but I don't know about not liking him. He's the only thing I think about at night. (Acept for tonight). I think he likes me, too. My friends think he does, anyway. The one at the skating ring, I feel so weird with. I get butterflys, my heart beats like 15 times a second when I touch (Fall on or hug) him, so I think I might like him better... Or I might just be crushing on him a tiny bit... I have no clue.

Ok, last paragraph, I promise. Which one should I choose? I have no idea, I don't know which i like more, nothing is working for me!! I just want to be happy with one person... (And have any of you noticed this might make a great story?) OMG I DID NOT MEAN FOR IT TO BE THIS LONG!!! Sorry to make you read all of that!!! And thanks in advance! Especially if you actually read it all!

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I say you should get in contact with the guy you met over the summer and get to know him better, just as friends and THEN decided if you want it to go anywhere, and if he does too, then ladeedaa happily ever after.

    And as for the other guy, if you went with him, you could break up and then it'd be all awkward all the time and you don't want that!

    Also, it seems like the guy from summer seems more interested in you. You should take what you can, and not chase after some guy who MIGHT MAYBE be interested in you, after he breaks up with his girlfriend, and only the gods know how far away that time might be.

    All I'm saying is: 'Dont **** where you eat'

    Haha, I cant believe I took the time to read that whole thing !

    Goodluck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    follow ur heart! pick the one you like most. don't go for a guy who already has a girlfriend. go for the scope guy. Unless he's a manwhore.

    then just wait for another guy who deserves you.

  • Jane
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Didn't read it but this works,

    Flip a coin

    Before it lands you will know which side you want to come up

  • 1 decade ago

    Ok, you need a hobby.

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