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Can I charge babysitting fees if someone has to work on their visitation weekends?

My daughters father "claims" he has to work so far every weekend he has visitation with her, meaning he doesn't pick her up. Can I charge him babysitting fees for this? I live in Texas if this helps any.

Update:

It has nothing to do with wether or not I have time for myself. I pay for a babysitter when I work and if I chose to go for 'me" time. This is about her and her time with her dad. I have a court order that clearly states that he is to take her certain weekends and have altered the weekends to his schedule. I could give a rats butt about the child support I receive, it's petty to me. .

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You cannot charge for babysitting your own child. If he is unable to see the child on weekends have the visitation schedule adjusted to better suit his schedule.

  • Desi
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Sorry, no you can't.

    Whether he chooses to exercise his visitation rights or not, you are still a full time mother.

    If you need free time away from your child/children, you need to pay for a babysitter out of what you already receive in child support or pay for it yourself.

    I also doubt that changing the visitation schedule will do anything to improve his commitment or the amount of time he spends with his daughter.

  • KevinM
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    If it keeps up, you can evenually ask for a change in the custody arrangement because of this.

    But - are there times during the week when he could look after the kids? Maybe you could trade.

    P.S. You're saying that it's petty to ask for more in support, but it's not petty to ask for babysitting money? And you won't let him look after the kids during the week when he's not working, but would rather pay a babysitter rather than let your daughter spend the time with his father? Gee...

  • 1 decade ago

    I doubt it. Raising children is a full time job. But i'm interested to see what people answer.

    Whats with all the questions about texas?

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