I lost my baby and need some advice please!?

so i just want to give you a bright light at the end of your dark tunnel...

i had a miscarriage in july and it was the worst feeling ever and i think you described it perfect... they told me to wait and i bleed in the bathroom of the hospital and ended up having a miscarriage in the bathroom of the hospital because they thought i was overreacting! So i know how you feel about being ignored! and i didn't let them do a D&C and i was fine! my OB did a follow up and he said everything was going to be okay!!!

But the light at the end of the tunnel is soon after my miscarriage i got pregnant again and im currently 16 weeks, the baby is healthy and now i know my baby has its big brother or sister looking over him/her from up above!!! its the only thing that got me through, i had pretty much given up until i found out god gave me another chance!!! but if you need someone to just listen to feel free to IM me (littleambii)AIM

I hope everything works out And im so sorry for your loss hun!!!

I'm sorry to hear about your lost. It sounds like you've been thur alot. I don't know why they would give you vicodin, is what my concern would be. If they told you that everything was fine they should have just told you to take some tylenol, as that is the only safe medication to use in pregnancy. I would think they would have had to check you again and give you another ultra sound before performing a d&c. You should check into the hospital and make sure they didn't do something wrong. I also had a miscarriage but mine was at 6 weeks and I didn't have cramping, I was bleeding alot though. I know everyone is different like you said. I know this is a very hard time for you and this may not be very comforting now but just know that everything happens for a reason. God needed our babies before we got to see them, but that doesn't make them any less of a baby.

Oh my honey, I'm so sorry you had to go through this.

I miscarried on my first pregnancy and the pain was unbearable. I had to be taking to the hospital on an ambulance and good thing my boyfriend was with me. I screamed and cried half the way there and even more when I got there.

I'm not sure what to tell you about the hospital. I stayed there for about 12 hours having them take blood, do vaginal ultrasounds and checking my cervix and all that. It was traumatic and I still haven't been able to get over it. I'm so sorry for your loss.

I know this isn't much help but it was the best I could do. You have an angel in heaven now. *hugs*

Im sorry for your loss. I had a m/c in April, so i know how it feels. It does sound like they were a bit negligent. I would atleast consult with someone who has legal experience(maybe a friend/relative), and maybe they can advise you on whether or not you have a shot at taking any action against the hospital. I am pretty sure they will say it was just a m/c, a spontaneous thing that just happens, and its noones fault. But it does sound like they were at the very least, negligent. Good Luck!

i am sorry to hear that you have lost your baby. now even though it seems like something should have been done to prevent this there is really nothing they can do. the only thing they could have done was give you something for the pain and wait it out. your doctor has to make the call on your cervix the er just treats your current symptoms. now they should not have given you vicodin while your baby was still alive. i am sorry once again. god bless my dear.

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i dont know what to say but i am so, so, so sorry.