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What to do about this girl.?
It's been about over 9 months now. This girl I dated for about a year and a half broke up with me back in April for someone else. One of my friends over heard a conversation she was having the other day, she was asked if she ever loved me, she just replied with "Not really." Why does this still **** with me so bad? I should be over her.
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You spent a year and a half of your life with this girl and then she dumped you for another guy. She basically cut out your heart, put it in a blender, and poured it down the toilet.
Of course it messes with you when you hear that your time together didn't mean anything to her.
Part of us never wants to be rejected, the truth sucks.
I don't think it's an issue of you being over HER I think you're just not over the way she treated you. I think it's pretty brutal and it's understandable that it stung.
The only advice I can give you is to be more careful with who you entrust your heart to in the future. You deserve someone who feels lucky to be with you and who treasures you.
Be glad you found out her true colors before you wasted anymore of your life on such a selfish and cruel person.
I wish you all the best.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well clearly she was a big part of your life, its never fun to hear people talk about you like that or pretend they never cared but I suspect thats what she was doing pretending. Maybe 9 months is enough time to move on and try and find someone else.