I'm 17, am I too naive to know what love is?

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There's this girl see.
And I've hurt her alot recently for a number of reasons.
And I'm doing what I need to fix my issues with what I did.
For now I can't fix things with her.
She's moved on to this other boy.
And she won't talk to me.
She wants nothing to do with me.
I know for a fact that this boy is never going to love her near as much as she deserves.
And I want her back so badly.
I honestly tried to tell her how I wanted her back and how things would be different.
But how cliche is that right?
I sleep in one of the shirts she left at my house everynight.
I taped one of her bobby pins I found on my floor to the back of my phone to keep it with me.
That could sound either really sweet or really creepy depending on how you take it.
But I honestly feel like I want to grow up with this girl.
I want to graduate my hell hole high school and get a simple apartment with her.
Wake up to her still sleeping face everymorning.
As if I hadn't done that enough already I want to do it for a much longer time than I have.
I guess this is just me rambling.
But I just would like to know if you think I'm too young or not expirienced enough to know what I feel is real.
We were together for almost 3 years and they were the most challenging years for me yet.
Things aren't getting easier now watching her be with him..

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

yes i think u ar and ur feelings are bordering on obsession, so i cant say, but maybe shes not the one for u, maybe she was supposed to teach u a lesson, sometimes we meet ppl in life to help us learn and afterwards we're supposed to let them go, the problem is most of us dont wanna let go, and we have plenty of divorces and broken marriages accross the country.. do u . peace.

loveshaddix · Answer

thats so sweet!
im 16 so i can pretty much relate
but honestly from my experiences the more you call her and text her and whatever its just going to get her more frustrated with you and it wont get better,
you need to give her awhile as hard as it is for you
then after you've given her a break try to let her know you just want the best for her and maybe after a while she can realize you've changed

and if it still doesnt work out, then that means it wasnt meant to be
remember sometimes bad things happen so even better thing will come (:

good luck<3

Anonymous · Answer

dude yes, you are too inexperienced if you honestly dont know what to do. dont lay around in her shirt wishing for her. a real man wouldnt give up. work hard, and prove to her that you deserve her and then sweep her off her feet, and make her love you again

confusegir · Answer

for a lot of people, it age does not matter. it just happens and you feel it. If you feel strongly about this girl, then take your chance and get her back. Just don't do anything that you will regret or say in the future.."what if i had done..."Good luck!

holnrew · Answer

Yes.

★Ʀävē★ · Answer

all i got to say is sry man same thing happened to me 
wish u luck on gettin her bak

Vintage 181 · Answer

I didn't read the entire question but no one is too young for love.

Who let Nagini out · Answer

love is anyones guess

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