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Laith asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

How do I make this feeling go away?

There is a girl that I like, but I always had this feeling that she didn't like me back, not even as a friend. I really wanted her to like me, but I ended pushing too hard and made her uncomfortable. Now she won't talk to me.

Today my buddy surprised me by calling me out of the blue and asking me what was going on between me and the girl. He is her friend too. I thought no one knew what was going on, but I guess he clued in. He started telling me how she would talk about me and say I was a sweet guy and a cool guy and all sorts of stuff. Now since I talked to him, I've had this horrible feeling in my stomach. I also have an overwhelming urge to punch the wall.

I can't relax or anything. I don't know if it's guilt for what I did or if it's fear that she won't ever talk to me again. I have apologized to her many times, but she still won't talk to me.

How can I make this feeling go away?

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  • 1 decade ago

    Only way to make it go away is to move on for awhile, bro. Give her some space & enjoy your life while you do. When you moved on with your life & think it's time then hit her up. Talk normally and be like "How have you been?" and etc. If she still won't talk to you after all that time then either tell her that you're really sorry for the past and tell her you want to start fresh or you can move on fully and let her be.

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