What should I say, should I even say it?

You answered your own question -- tell her exactly that... You really miss her and you really want to talk to her but you don't want to guilt her into doing so, especially since you were the one in the wrong and at the very least just want to apologize.

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Maybe she is WAITING for you to apologize?

I think you should first apologise to her for acting stupid. I guess she just wants an apology. You mentioned it has been a month and I think thats enough time for her to get thinking and I bet she must be missing you too. Just explain to her that you're sorry for what you did and that you've been missing her but you really need her in your life right now as you're going through some stuff and it would be great if she was there for you..

Hope it works out.

I think you need to suck it up and apologize. Just tell her that you know you were wrong, and tell her how sorry you are. I'm sure she'll accept your apology, and then you can both get on with life. When you made a mistake, always admit it immediately. Don't let that much time lapse where friends are concerned. Good friends can last a lifetime, don't lose one if you can help it.

I think apologizing might be a good way to start. I don't know what you did, but if you know you did something wrong and you regret it, the best way to start communicating again may be to tell her you're sorry for whatever you did. That way, no blame or pressure is put on her, and she'll know that you're aware of the wrong you made.

Put it in a letter and give it to her... explain that you know you were wrong and you don't want to guilt her into speaking to you again--but if she could find it in her heart to forgive you and move beyond whatever it is you did...then ask her to please give you a chance to make amends.

There is nothing ever wrong with saying you are sorry when you are at fault. Tell her how you feel.

Send her a note or an email and apologize for whatever you did. Tell her you miss her and you would love for her to give you another chance. If you really care about her then don't give up on your friendship.

just tell her how u feel. if ur feeling really bad about it tell her dont hide ur true feelings. the apology will mean so much more if u are completely honest and she will know if u are or not. heart felt apologies are always the best and usually accepted. just be honest and say what ur feeling. goodluck :)

She'll talk to you when she's ready, don't try and get back in yourself leave it to her

I know someone just like you in the same situation. Took me a minute to work out if you were the person I know. If you're then you know how to contact me.

you should defiantly tell her because if u don't you could never talk to her again, just be like i know i ****** up really bad and i hate not talking to you, im really sorry or something like that

Say whats on your mind...trust me shell want to hear every lil word outta your mouth! EVERY WORD! Tell her everything you just said. EVERYTHING. Shell want to hear it! Trust me from experence. Girls like to hear whats on your mind.!!!