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Faith
Lv 4
Faith asked in Society & CultureHolidaysRamadan · 1 decade ago

Seeing someone too often by coincidence?

I used to know someone during my studying days who was always annoying and bugging me for no reason, I finished years ago and was grateful we can't meet anymore, but somehow didn't forget.

Lately, everywhere I go I just meet that same person again! I don't know how or why that strange coincidence keeps happening, I just don't get it, but it happens!

and I'm sure it's not arranged or stalking because... for example, you go to a job interview, and guess what? that same person is the interviewer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this could never be arranged, could it?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Amazingly enough, that person became nice and is hinting to liking me! I try to walk away but we just meet the next month somewhere else! I kind of feel like fate is giving me that hint that I don't wanna get! I don't hate the person, but the thought is like a nightmare coming true... I guess!

I'm just confused and scared...

How come we are meant for each other while I don't feel this person is the right match for me? I'm scared

If we are not meant to be, why do we meet so often and in situations where I have to listen to the hints? I'm confused

Any suggestion or explanation? Thanks.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Maybe that person is your destiny lol

  • 1 decade ago

    Everything is in Allah's hands. Hence, there is no such thing as coincidence. There must be a message Allah is trying to give you by you bumping into him frequently. Did you ever wonder if he thinks the same way about you as you do of him? He must keep wondering, "why is this girl everywhere I go? At school, work, functions, is there anywhere I won't see her? Is this God's way of saying we should be together?" Think about it, it works both ways. If he is a good Muslim, there should be no reason why you should not marry him. Most girls say that guys should marry a girl not for looks, but for character and religion. Now I'm putting the onus back on you, if he is a good Muslim, there should be no reason why you would not marry him.

  • Dave R
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I've noticed that this happens in my life as well, and it is reported by others I've known. My theory for it runs like this. . .

    People are subconsciously connected on more levels than the one we are aware of. The mundane, cheesy, "Elvis-on-velvet" word for it is, "Psychic". --Obviously, I don't like that term. I think it is a gross over-simplification used by woo-woo new-age crystal and incense people, but it does cover in a general way, the same bases.

    I believe that people are born with definite pre-determined game plans for any given life; the things you need to experience in order to advance the growth of your soul. Often you'll have friends you 'travel' with over many lives. People you've known before. Sometimes they will incarnate and play the role of an enemy or a difficult friend who forces you to learn hard lessons you have decided you need. --Who better to teach you a painful lesson than somebody who loves you?

    When it is time for certain connections to come about, your subconscious and theirs will arrange things to happen. You'll bump into that person more often at times which are appropriate. And in just the same way, people who you have finished working with you will realize that you never seem to see. --I lived in a small town for a few years and this kind of thing happened all the time. The people you're supposed to meet, you run into constantly when you never did before, and people where this happened with a year ago suddenly become invisible.

    Though. . , there is another explanation.

    There are negative forces which work in our world and they are very strong. They are responsible for keeping humanity enslaved, miserable, war-like and murderous. These same forces are capable of 'inserting' negative influences in your life, or creating events which seem to verify thoughts you had only a moment ago and thus appear magical.

    You need to trust your instincts to tell a positive lesson you have chosen from a negative influence designed to throw you off your life path.

    Good luck!

  • ιѕα
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Perceptibly, what happens to you is a part of providence. I don’t have the authority to say if he is predestined to be your life associate or not, because Allah Swt knows best.

    If you wish to get to know this man, then I suggest that you either introduce him to your parents, or get to know him through the halal way. It’s best to find out if he truly is attracted to you, and is ready to either engage or marry you.

    The most significant thing in this situation is to look within yourself and find out what you desire. Do you feel attracted to him? Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with him? Are you ready to introduce him to your parents?

    It’s so adorable the way you two keep bumping into each other. You either go for it, or disregard it.

    God bless your soul.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    He might have your cell telephone bugged,this is particularly hassle-free to do, He might have a voice activated digital recorder in or below your table, Drivers seat, Trick him with a pretend textual content message and see if he shows up there. this is coincident, regardless of the incontrovertible fact that it smells fishy to me.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I dont think there is anything wrong with that lol

    i find it cute and funny. i mean, think about it, its always "that" person you are bumping into.

    you have two choices to choose from now.

    >either you completely ignore

    or

    >you go along with it and be nice ^_^

    best of luck ^_^

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That right.. it is just coincidence..

    nothing much.. things just happen that way..

    Allah(Swt), Takdir Kadak & Kadar..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you are sure it is not arranged, then it's a hint.

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