what can i do about my friend?

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this is quite a long story but i'll try and make it short as possible.

we have had a rocky friendship- there have been a lot of fallouts- but once when we were talkin about this quite big fallout we had she said that she thought i was ill when i hadn't talked to her for 2 weeks. 
basically, lately she had a fall out with my friend jan because me and jan, as a joke, went on one of our friends facebook profiles and changed her profile pic to one of my other friend purely because they looked similar. and then she started gettin stressy about it when it wasn't about her. so on msn jan was sayin it wasn't her - but because u cant tell the way people are sayin things on msn she thought she was beein serious. and so she got really pissed off with jan and because they had had a fallout before jan was still a bit fed up of her and so she sent an email sayin all the things she had been feelin for a while and that. but they still aren't talking.
so, i was talkin to both of them trying to work it out (not at the same time) and jan was alll up for making up with her but my other friend was still annoyed about it so i was sayin to her that you couldnt tell how she was sayin it (shes annoyed because she said she didnt do it) and that they are both pathetic (cause thats the way she describes every thing and one that annoy her) fallin out over a picture and then she had a go at me for "getting involved" and that i was makin things 10 times worse and all that. when she was bein horrible about another one of my friends and then because my other friend was upset she went straight over to her and that and she alwyas does things like that and it just feels like she thinks she is gods gift and that we are all somthing she scraped off her shoe. 

so i was just wonderin what to do about this cos she annoys me soooooo much and has to be involved and i know that if i confront her with this she will tell everyone she knows what B***** i am and that.

so i was wonderin what u would do in my situation and if i'm just bein self centered and she is right? 
thanks in adavance and we are all in yr 11

bud · Accepted Answer

You revealed what kind of a person you are when you changed someone's facebook profile. You can pass it off as fun, but it's obvious what you did was dishonest and underhanded. You will continue having relationship problems because you are dishonest and mean spirited. Grow up.

xxhayley10xx · Answer

if u were true friends u wouldnt keep falling out, ur friend should realise that your only tryin to help the situation and gets things back to "normal" .
if it was me id confront her and say that u was just trying to help get things back to normal and your sorry about the photo but it was never done in a way to hurt her feelings etc, 
even if this girl does go around spreading crap about you, least you havent been 2 faced and have told her directly to her face and u'l get respect for that but she dont sound that much of a mate if she would tell every one crap bowt ya, she sounds like an attention seeker and propa needs to grow up !

Anonymous · Answer

im sorry but this just seems like some of you are immature. and i dont know why you would go on her facebook and change her picture even as a joke. i think you should all just forget about it and start over.

Un PC Scooby Doo 3 · Answer

your right it is a long story, unfortunately I can't answer it as It will make me doze off and I'll get in trouble from the boss.

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