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What does my boyfriend mean?
Me and my Bf had a serious discussion last night about where we were heading in our relationship. He says he doesn't want to commit(Marriage&Kids) well sometimes he does and sometimes he doesn't. He wants me to stay,but it isn't fair to me because that he isn't sure he is able to support a family right now or even in the next five years. I am confused because sometimes he makes comments about having a family and that he is the last one to continue the bloodline. We are both almost 30 and because of medical reasons I only have a few years left to have my own. I Love him very much and stated that If I run out of time with having children that would be ok(even though that is so important to me) As long as I have him. Give me your honest opinion please.Should I stay or should I go? Thank u in advance
The confusing thing is that he says he misses me so much when he gets home from work and I am not there,That he is happy when I am there to greet him with a smile & a kiss.But I can't get him to commit to anything more than what we exsist already(bf & gf). We do love each other very much. But if I had to choose between him and my lost future children I would choose him, but would I be really happy?
2 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well how long have u guys been together? I mean im sure u guys love each other and everything but when it comes down to it its not fair for u to sit there and wait while he makes up his mind on what he wants. You have already made up ur mind apperently u already to him how u felt but he didnt seem to care. I say if he isnt in the same page as u then move on because if he isnt right now he might never be.. I had the same situation with my now ex bf we had been together for 3yrs I was ready for the next step and when I would ask him he would say I dont know so I waited and waited in the end he broke my heart.After 3yrs together and me waiting it took him only 1 month to find someone else.While im still here crying over it..In the end do what makes u happy cause its ur life. Good luck with everything:)
- 1 decade ago
I think the final decision is up to you. Personally, I think you should leave if he said the words "I don't want to commit" and your almost thirty. If you love him like you say do, try talking with him again. Find out how serious he is about your relationship and determine if you will be okay if you don't have kids. If you really love him and you are okay if their are no kids, then you should stay.
