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What is a love-hate relationship?
Today I was with a guy that apparently likes me [he said this but im not sure i believe him] and we always argue, constantly. We fight, hit eachother, call eachother names. I used to be in love with him- until recently. But today he said ''Me and you have a love-hate relationship dont we.''
What does that mean? That he loves me or hates me or both?
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26 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
i have one of those.... and we fight all the time and say **** to each other and beat the crap out of each other.... it means he loves you but you both clash when it comes to personality types which causes arguements.... its not a bad thing... just makes thing a bit more exciting.... well in the bedroom lol
Source(s): my relationship - 1 decade ago
Well the two of you are not compatable at all. Don't hit that is really childish. You need to end this relationship first of all. Second, a love hate relationship is what you have...it means you love eachother for whatever reason i don't know, but you apparently act like you hate eachother. If you really truely loved one another you would not fight over meaningless things or hit one another or call eachother names. I feel like i'm talking to a two year old. Really..this is dumb, don't hit or call eachother names.
- 1 decade ago
Well here's an example of another type of love-hate relationship which may help you understand yours. "A friendship" I have a friend who has some of the most amazing features and there is no one like him. We have a long history and he has a lot of good going for him. Great advice, fun to hang out with, and is the life of the party. However, he does little things that can really piss me off. Recently, I left my new (ipod) at his house.. didn't return my calls and sure enough when I finally got it back.. he exchanged the battery from his.. so i now have a somewhat dysfunctional ipod! He's stolen a cd or two from me in the past and yeah.. petty things.. So I make my point in saying you are trading in that wonderful good for some of that crappy crap. Is there better out there? .. yes, but in my situation he's a friend.. not a bf or gf so I don't have to deal with him on a regular basis.. only once a few weeks when i want to and usually on my terms.
So, your paying for what you get.. you give some of your dignity and respect to receive the love you get from him. (A rose with thorns?) Is it worth it? You're going to evaluate that yourself. A list of pos. and negs. helps too. Good luck.
- 1 decade ago
A love hate relationship is a relationship that has reached a point where you subconsciously imagine 2 egos co-existing in one person that you are involved with. You may love the first ego, the one that is nostalgic of good things and feelings of love (dopamine, serotonin). When the other ego comes up, it will throw you off and cause you to absolutely go apeshit to the point of hating that person. Most of the time those feelings are generated by an event that you regret the person doing something and may even refuse to believe it happened.
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- 5 years ago
a love hate relationship is bad news man, i think its more of an attachment then actual love. i dated a girl who was like that she didnt appreciate me but she couldnt stand being w/o me, she just loved how i made her feel and what i did for her but she wasnt in love with me. as i got to know her more i found out she had some personal family issues esp. with her dad and i realized that until she got that taken care of she wasnt going to be able to be happy in a relationship. Talk to her and find out what its about and if its something like family or other personal issues then its better to cut her loose and let her work on that before it starts to turn sour.
- 1 decade ago
You really both shouldn't be togther, but you didnt ask for relationship advice. but i think it means that you love to hate eachother, or that you love & hate eachother.. im not to sure which one tho
- openmindedLv 61 decade ago
Its called disfunctional. Stay away form those you dont get along with or your life will be miserable. Me and my guy of 5 years dont fight and harly ever argue infact cant remembeer the last time we did and we live together!
- Karo MiyukiLv 61 decade ago
Love Hate can be all kinds of things. One minute you seem to love, the other you seem to Hate, fight and argue. Sometimes you love, sometimes you hate. Think of Kagome and Inuyasha. =)
However, In your case it just sounds like violence.
- T.Lv 61 decade ago
Hot & Cold, Good & Bad, Love & Hate......... It's a balance. We all do it. You both love to fight with each other. You both love to love each other. I would take it as a compliment! What it means is that you can be yourselves around one another.
- 1 decade ago
love hate is when you love eachother deep down but can act like you hate eachother loads too!!
hope that answers your question =)