What would you do if your spouse abandoned you?

This is really sad. Try to get out with some friends to get your mind off of him. Keep yourself occupied. I hope this has a happy ending. x

It would probably depend on the reason he left as well.Lean on family and friends, try to stay positive and pray! I am here for you.It is devastating,you will just try to move on, if there is no hope for a reconciliation. Things happen for a reason, remember that.

My dear, Please move on. I was 15 when I married, had my son at 17, was a widow at 19. [ he was killed in a trucking acct.] But the whole time we were married he walked out on me 6 times, beat me, drank, other women etc. I had to grow up real quick. I got my GED. worked 2 jobs, raised my SON ALL ALONE, got a job in the sheriffs dept. as a PARALEGAL, retired early and now have my own business. PATRICIA'S KNITS here in eastern area PA. I can just about do anything a man can do cause I didn't have the $$$$ to hire anyone. Today, I'm not rich, but I'm happy with who I am and what I did with my life. My advise to you. Is MOVE ON. U CAN DO IT. Best wishes to U.

Get with your spiritual leaders -and follow their guidance,you will find this much more helpful then the above answers i've seen so far,also crying is a form of healing--so let it out--things get better in time,remember i said better --not--over--but better is a beginning

that's awful, sorry that's happened to you

I would be absolutely devastated if my gf abandoned me. It would feel like my heart had been ripped out

Don't know don' t have one, never want one. I love myself above anyone else. I don't need anyone. Why would you give your power away to someone like that? Talk to your feelings, get mad at them and tell them they need to realize "he" is not worth it, you are more important than no person, man woman or elephant! Well people betray you, elephants wouldn't. Sweetie, you'll always have yourself, you're way more important than no feelings about some jerk who does not deserve you. Cheer up and watch some baby rhino videos on you tube! XOXO

Sorry you are so sad.. They say time will heal your pain but I know it doesn't help the emptiness in your heart.

Carry on as normal,

conan has a great idea, just get out of the house and go party with your friends, get so drunk you start talking crap about your ex to your friends and wake up the next morning with a serious hangover and no regrets about what you did, and kick out the person laying next to you.

haters can't take jokes, they can't stand hapiness... DIE HATERS, DIE...

Sorry to hear of your trouble. Wish I had something constructive to tell you.