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Which is better? serious question?

not caring as much about others and liking yourself

or

caring a lot about others and hating yourself

Update:

i'm the second. it bothers me some, because i'd like to find a nice balance, but i can't.

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  • Marco
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    caring about myself

    Source(s): the only thing that matters is self-respect
  • 1 decade ago

    Hate is a negative emotion that will eat you out from the inside and nobody would be the wiser or for that matter, help you.

    Care about yourself and the opportunity to care for others will come about because you will eventually have an overabundance to give to others

  • 1 decade ago

    None.

    You have to make a balance in your life.

    If you like yourself very much and don't care about the others, then you're a narcissist, which is one of mental disorder.

    If you really hate yourself, then it could lead you to a suicide, also another disorder.

    So, we have to care and respect ourselves and others.

  • 1 decade ago

    ooo thats a good question..

    i would have to say the 1st one "not caring as much about others and liking yourself" cuz if it was the other way around it can lead to u have prblms.idk but thats a really good question but in a way its both of those

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  • apple
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    not caring as much about others and liking yourself

  • 1 decade ago

    if you put a lot of care into others, you will be happy and like yourself

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Not caring about others and liking myself.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What if you don't care much about others AND hate yourself?

  • Certainly, not caring as much about others and liking myself.

  • //
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Ideally to have it balanced, but the 2nd one. That's text book me.

  • 1 decade ago

    I care about others but also care about myself too. Are you as insane as I am?

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