GIRLS...i cant seem to understand them!!!?

First of all girls do like good guys, but they seem to want bad guys. You don't have to be bad to acheive bad boy status. You can get a tattoo when your older, piercings, etc. Your clothes and your hair can give the illusion of bad boy status. Also intelligence and being funny are good attributes that women find attractive. I are not talking about nerd status. I am talking about activism, or having intelligent ideas etc.. You could lose weight, but most girls are not that superficial. Always having good hygiene is a must. Brush your teeth take a shower. Girls tell other girls about a boys BO. Don't try to be every girls friend. You will only usually be seen as just that a friend. Unless she confides to you about how she is tired of her boyfriend. That usually is a way to see if you are interested in her. Wear a good smelling cologne such as Drakkar Noir, women love that scent. Or Happy by Clinique. Awesome scent, girls will want to eat you up. Don't have fast hands with girls that is creepy.Don't wear tight jeans gay guys wear tight jeans and shirts. Wear baggy stuff. Treat the girls nice, and have manners. Like opening the door, carrying books. Tell her how she looks, notice a change in her and give a compliment. Don't act too needy, act a little aloof.

Good luck with finding help for that one. LOL. I guess I could help by putting my 2 cents in. Trust me man, I LOVE THE LADIES, but they're making it difficult for us men by being so complex. One thing that I do know about these creatures is that they like funny, outgoing guys. "If you make a girl laugh, you're only half way there". Look at that fool Chris Brown. The ladies love him because he's goofy as hell. And I do know that the ladies love a guy that "actually listens" to them. I see that as a damn near impossible task to accomplish when all they talk about is nothing of my interest. I hope i helped. Maybe someone else can be of better assistance for you.

aaaaaaawww ... well you sound so cute

but here are some tips:

#1. YOu need to get like an extreme makeover. Get rid of those jeans ( theyre weird dude) ummmh and exercise a little more ya know to stay fit ( not trying to b mean )

#2. Get a haircut i like guys with spiky hair, short. dress with abercrombie, aeropostale, american eagle clothes.

#3. after your makeover girls will fall for you buddy. believe me my brother used to be all shy and chubby and when he lost weight and dressed nice all these girls fell for him. Unfortunately he change into being a jerk! hope that doesnt happen to you buddy

good luck :)

Ok. All girls are different. I for one do not like tight jeans, but I do like skater dudes. (I'm 13, 14 in April... just so you know. lol) I love blue eyes, but they aren't a necessity... umm... I like dark hair... and I don't like it when guys are fat but chubby isn't bad. You sound like you're doing okay... Nice/sweet... some girls like the quiet guys... it makes them curious about what they are really like then they chase you. lol. And girls are very hard to understand. Girls don't understand each other. If you asked a girl "Why do you...." Chances are, they won't know why they do it... haha... I hope I helped

Women

Hahah you say effein too!

Who cares if your a widdo chubby!

Keep it going with theem skinnaayyy jeans!

we likee thatt.

Be sweet but not super duper nicee(:

And dont be girly or we get a "vibee"

Yaaa diggg'?

Sont go for bitchess!

And no wannabe popular girls eitherrr.

Go ferrr sweet pretty and quiettt.

P.S nobodyy understands uss(;

no lies, 14 blows. and don't be too sweet and nice, girls like it when a guy takes charge a lot of the time, so if a girls says what do you want to do and you say you pick, and she tells you to choose, you should pick. and talk to them, girls like guys best for telling secrets too because a lot of the time guys don't care enough, or care too much to tell anyone. just be yourself. it sounds bad, but i'm 15, and it's what i like in guys.

How about you stop looking on how the girls on the TV, magazines, movies, or whatever WANT you to act like.

I know this sounds cliche. BE YOURSELF.

Look in your own backyard instead of the television screen.

dude, just be urself. im 17 and i barely got the courage to talk to girls wen i was ur age. now, i dnt have a girlfriend, but friends who are girls. sh**, i dnt care though...oh, making them laugh is always good, that s**t works for me.

Dont be super super kind eh lol...girls like it when you punch them softly and pull your tongue at them..be flirty, if you like a girl...when no one is around poke her arms softly and say it...no harm done..

Good luck man