Alex

I am currently a California resident, but I would like to establish residency in Florida because I have a job with The Walt Disney Company in FL, and I anticipate on staying there long-term. The problem is that I am still just 20 years old and I am considered 'dependent' on my parents which means I must remain a California resident until I turn 24.

However, if I am able to support myself financially fully, that is, without the aid of my parents or anybody else, would I be able to make a strong case that I am 'independent'? With the position with Disney, I would be fully capable of supporting myself financially.

Also, while I'm not moving to Florida and attempting to gain residency solely for college, I do think that I'd like to attend college there in a few years when I'm ready. If anybody knows, are the classifications for being 'independent' different for claiming Residency and for the FAFSA? I think that if I am working, paying taxes, registered to vote, licensed to drive, etc. in Florida while being self-supporting financially, that means I would be independent for Residency purposes, while in order to be considered independent for financial aid (meaning they don't expect my parents to help me pay for college) you have to be 24 or married/have kids/veteran of the military. I'm sorry if this all sounds confusing, but I doubt that until I turn 24, I would NOT be considered 'independent' for the FAFSA/financial aid purposes, but I am just not sure if that would also make me NOT considered 'independent' for Residency purposes, even if I pay state taxes, registered to vote, licensed to drive, self-supporting financially, etc. I am just unsure if being considered 'dependent' for one of them means I am automatically considered 'dependent' for the other as well.

My priority is being a Florida resident, ahead of being considered 'independent' for the FAFSA, just to be clear. Besides, if I was a FL resident, I'd qualify for in-state tuition anyways.

Please let me know if I need to clarify anything, any help would be great, thanks!

I was with her for ten months. We were both each other's first boy/girlfriend, lost our virginity to each other, and shared amazing moments together. We're in a long-distance relationship now that she's in a college about three hours away.

It's only been a week and she breaks up with me last night saying things like:

"I want you to be happy with somebody else who you can see more often"

"I'm not sure if I love you anymore"

"I need some space"

I'm so hurt. I did not see this coming at all.

I know, it sounds like it's dead and over. But if she loved me before, she can love me again, right?

Please help! I really miss her and I don't wanna lose her.

We still remain friends, and we're really close, and I was planning on visiting her next week, and she said she'd still like it if I came.

I was with her for ten months. We were both each other's first boy/girlfriend, lost our virginity to each other, and shared amazing moments together. We're in a long-distance relationship now that she's in a college about three hours away.

It's only been a week and she breaks up with me last night saying things like:

"I want you to be happy with somebody else who you can see more often"

"I'm not sure if I love you anymore"

"I need some space"

I'm so hurt. I did not see this coming at all.

I know, it sounds like it's dead and over. But if she loved me before, she can love me again, right?

Please help! I really miss her and I don't wanna lose her.

We still remain friends, and we're really close, and I was planning on visiting her next week, and she said she'd still like it if I came.

I was with her for ten months. We were both each other's first boy/girlfriend, lost our virginity to each other, and shared amazing moments together. We're in a long-distance relationship now that she's in a college about three hours away.

It's only been a week and she breaks up with me last night saying things like:

"I want you to be happy with somebody else who you can see more often"

"I'm not sure if I love you anymore"

"I need some space"

I'm so hurt. I did not see this coming at all.

I know, it sounds like it's dead and over. But if she loved me before, she can love me again, right?

Please help! I really miss her and I don't wanna lose her.

We still remain friends, and we're really close, and I was planning on visiting her next week, and she said she'd still like it if I came.

I was with her for ten months. We were both each other's first boy/girlfriend, lost our virginity to each other, and shared amazing moments together. We're in a long-distance relationship now that she's in a college about three hours away.

It's only been a week and she breaks up with me last night saying things like:

"I want you to be happy with somebody else who you can see more often"

"I'm not sure if I love you anymore"

"I need some space"

I'm so hurt. I did not see this coming at all.

I know, it sounds like it's dead and over. But if she loved me before, she can love me again, right?

Please help! I really miss her and I don't wanna lose her.

We still remain friends, and we're really close, and I was planning on visiting her next week, and she said she'd still like it if I came.

I was with her for ten months. We were both each other's first boy/girlfriend, lost our virginity to each other, and shared amazing moments together. We're in a long-distance relationship now that she's in a college about three hours away.

It's only been a week and she breaks up with me last night saying things like:

"I want you to be happy with somebody else who you can see more often"

"I'm not sure if I love you anymore"

"I need some space"

I'm so hurt. I did not see this coming at all.

I know, it sounds like it's dead and over. But if she loved me before, she can love me again, right?

Please help! I really miss her and I don't wanna lose her.

We still remain friends, and we're really close, and I was planning on visiting her next week, and she said she'd still like it if I came.

So last night, my long-distance girlfriend of 10 months just dumped me. We live hundreds of miles apart now since she's in college.

Her reason? She wasn't sure she wanted to be tied down, she wanted to be able to have somebody closer, etc. I'm completely devastated, none of these reasons have anything to do with how I acted or done. She said she spark just wasn't there anymore.

I'm so shocked, and I want to win her back. She means the absolute world to me, and I just can't handle myself without having her beside me. I lost my virginity to her, so there's a big emotional attachement to that.

She said she still wants to be friends, and so do I, but I still want to be with her again.

Thoughts?

But she's been in college for one week. We've been together for a little under a year. I know her better than anybody. Are people really that cruel to ditch someone they've known and cared about for some stranger?

So last night, my long-distance girlfriend of 10 months just dumped me. We live hundreds of miles apart now since she's in college.

Her reason? She wasn't sure she wanted to be tied down, she wanted to be able to have somebody closer, etc. I'm completely devastated, none of these reasons have anything to do with how I acted or done. She said she spark just wasn't there anymore.

I'm so shocked, and I want to win her back. She means the absolute world to me, and I just can't handle myself without having her beside me. I lost my virginity to her, so there's a big emotional attachement to that.

She said she still wants to be friends, and so do I, but I still want to be with her again.

Thoughts?

But she's been in college for one week. We've been together for a little under a year. I know her better than anybody. Are people really that cruel to ditch someone they've known and cared about for some stranger?

So last night, my long-distance girlfriend of 10 months just dumped me. We live hundreds of miles apart now since she's in college.

Her reason? She wasn't sure she wanted to be tied down, she wanted to be able to have somebody closer, etc. I'm completely devastated, none of these reasons have anything to do with how I acted or done. She said she spark just wasn't there anymore.

I'm so shocked, and I want to win her back. She means the absolute world to me, and I just can't handle myself without having her beside me. I lost my virginity to her, so there's a big emotional attachement to that.

She said she still wants to be friends, and so do I, but I still want to be with her again.

Thoughts?

So me and my girlfriend are both 18 years old, freshmen in college.

We're in a long-distance relationship, and we have been ever since we've first started going out, which is a little less than a year ago. I'm from San Diego, she's from LA. She goes to college in Santa Barbara now which is about twice the distance, and I'm going to a community college a few miles from my house.

Even though I hate to admit it, I'm a little bit of the jealous type. Since I'm not there to be with her everyday, I feel uncomfortable when she talks and hangs out with guys that I don't know. Now that she's in college, I feel more out of control since there's a lot of horny college guys and my girlfriend told me that she wants to go out to party since she doesn't want to be the girl who stays home all the time. I'm highly uncomfortable about it, but she just tells me I'm overreacting. I'm learning to just go with it, and just trying to be the best boyfriend so that she can see that she'd be losing out if she decided to cheat.

But, with her in a university, she's meeting new friends, and basically has an entire new life. I can only see her through webcamming, but she's hardly home to talk to. I feel like I'm slowly being pushed out in a way. Before college, we would webcam every moment we got, but now she has new friends, she's on her own without her parents watching over, so she always goes out, and the change is so sudden that I feel like I don't play a part in this "new" life of hers.

I'm going to visit her in two weeks, so I that I can try to meet her friends, learn her new environment so that I can kinda squeeze myself back into her world.

I know, I should let her explore since she's in college, and I want to, but I don't have anybody to really talk to now that she's so busy. I go to school in the morning, then work all day until night. The friends that I do have only know how to drink alcohol and smoke weed, and I grew out of that phase a long time ago. So I'm starting to feel alone, I don't want to lose her, but I don't want to suffocate her at the same time.

I just want to feel like I still play a part in her life, and I want her to miss me, to show me that she still wants me. I probably give her too much of me, and so I decided to take a break.

Just a little white lie, and it's the only lie I've ever done in the relationship, but I told her that my phone and internet is disconnected for the next week or so. I'm just trying to see how she reacts without me in her life, and at the same time I'm trying to discover myself without her as well. I still love her, I'm not trying to break up with her or anything like that.

So it's not really a question, but I just wanted to get some perspective from other people. Sorry if it's too long!

So, me and my girlfriend have been able to maintain a long-distance relationship for the past 8 months. Just one hour away, no biggie. But, we're both still relatively young (18) and her parents are really strict on her and won't let her drive to visit me. So, I end up driving to see her, which I'll admit does take a toll on me, but I think it's totally worth it.

However, I don't want that to go unnoticed. I want her to appreciate the fact that I drive to see her since she can't return the favor.

Anyways, her and her girlfriends recently took a short mini-vacation to my city (San Diego) and I was really excited to be able to see her and show her my world, basically. She never gets to see me in my natural home environment, so I was really hoping to spend some time with her.

Her and her girlfriends made plans for the weekend, such as going to the beach, shopping, etc. I didn't mind this, because I understand it was a "girl-weekend". But, I asked if I could see her during their downtime, such as early in the morning or late at night when they aren't doing anything. But, she turned me down because she insisted that her and her friends had to do EVERYTHING with each other. EVEN NAP! I told my girlfriend that I was a little upset because we rarely get to see each other like this.

I understand it's a weekend for her and her girlfriends, but we RARELY get to see each other, and I never get to show her my hometown. After all of the times that I've come to see her, and the one time she comes to my city, she blows me off. She says she feels bad for 'ditching' her friends. But, what about me? I'm her boyfriend, who she hasn't seen in weeks. It's not like I'm asking for her to skip out on their plans, but just to save some room in the odd hours so that I can see her!

MY QUESTION IS: DO I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE UPSET? OR AM I JUST BEING PETTY?

If you need any clarification, just ask. Sorry for it being pretty long!

I know her friends, I've met them before, and for the most part, they like me. They spend time together nearly every day!

So, me and my girlfriend have been able to maintain a long-distance relationship for the past 8 months. Just one hour away, no biggie. But, we're both still relatively young (18) and her parents are really strict on her and won't let her drive to visit me. So, I end up driving to see her, which I'll admit does take a toll on me, but I think it's totally worth it.

However, I don't want that to go unnoticed. I want her to appreciate the fact that I drive to see her since she can't return the favor.

Anyways, her and her girlfriends recently took a short mini-vacation to my city (San Diego) and I was really excited to be able to see her and show her my world, basically. She never gets to see me in my natural home environment, so I was really hoping to spend some time with her.

Her and her girlfriends made plans for the weekend, such as going to the beach, shopping, etc. I didn't mind this, because I understand it was a "girl-weekend". But, I asked if I could see her during their downtime, such as early in the morning or late at night when they aren't doing anything. But, she turned me down because she insisted that her and her friends had to do EVERYTHING with each other. EVEN NAP! I told my girlfriend that I was a little upset because we rarely get to see each other like this.

I understand it's a weekend for her and her girlfriends, but we RARELY get to see each other, and I never get to show her my hometown. After all of the times that I've come to see her, and the one time she comes to my city, she blows me off. She says she feels bad for 'ditching' her friends. But, what about me? I'm her boyfriend, who she hasn't seen in weeks. It's not like I'm asking for her to skip out on their plans, but just to save some room in the odd hours so that I can see her!

MY QUESTION IS: DO I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE UPSET? OR AM I JUST BEING PETTY?

If you need any clarification, just ask. Sorry for it being pretty long!

I know her friends, I've met them before, and for the most part, they like me. They spend time together nearly every day!

So, me and my girlfriend have been able to maintain a long-distance relationship for the past 8 months. Just one hour away, no biggie. But, we're both still relatively young (18) and her parents are really strict on her and won't let her drive to visit me. So, I end up driving to see her, which I'll admit does take a toll on me, but I think it's totally worth it.

However, I don't want that to go unnoticed. I want her to appreciate the fact that I drive to see her since she can't return the favor.

Anyways, her and her girlfriends recently took a short mini-vacation to my city (San Diego) and I was really excited to be able to see her and show her my world, basically. She never gets to see me in my natural home environment, so I was really hoping to spend some time with her.

Her and her girlfriends made plans for the weekend, such as going to the beach, shopping, etc. I didn't mind this, because I understand it was a "girl-weekend". But, I asked if I could see her during their downtime, such as early in the morning or late at night when they aren't doing anything. But, she turned me down because she insisted that her and her friends had to do EVERYTHING with each other. EVEN NAP! I told my girlfriend that I was a little upset because we rarely get to see each other like this.

I understand it's a weekend for her and her girlfriends, but we RARELY get to see each other, and I never get to show her my hometown. After all of the times that I've come to see her, and the one time she comes to my city, she blows me off. She says she feels bad for 'ditching' her friends. But, what about me? I'm her boyfriend, who she hasn't seen in weeks. It's not like I'm asking for her to skip out on their plans, but just to save some room in the odd hours so that I can see her!

MY QUESTION IS: DO I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE UPSET? OR AM I JUST BEING PETTY?

If you need any clarification, just ask. Sorry for it being pretty long!

So, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months, and are both 18 years old.

We have a very strong relationship, talk everyday, both each other's first boy/girlfriend, and we love each other completely.

So, my dilemma is:

She has received texts from a guy who I've never met, and she's never mentioned him EVER, in any conversations. She never brought up his name at all. I could see him texting her because I usually hold her phone in my pocket because her pockets are too small and she hates taking her purse. I felt her phone vibrate in my pocket once when we were together and I took it out for her to check, and I noticed it was this guy again.

I brushed it off as nothing more than just a friend, as I didn't want to come off as too suspicious and controlling. However, this continued on and on and I just got more irritated, as she STILL didn't mention anything about him.

About last week, they were texting apparently and he called her out of nowhere, and she quickly grabbed the phone and put it on Silent. Since then, I've been very worried and suspicious so I decided to ask her about it. I asked her who he is, and why she's never mentioned him before.

She said, "He's just a friend who I lost touch with and I never found a reason to talk about him. I didn't think it was a big deal for me to be texting him since I know he's only a friend".

I trust her and believe that he's just a friend, but I just don't understand why she decided it was perfectly normal to not mention him at all.

So anyways, she tells me today (after I've asked her about who he is and everything) and she says' "Oh, well, me and Alan are going to lunch on Wednesday". I was like "Okay, sure". I thought it was odd how she never told me anything about him but all of a sudden, she makes plans to see him.

I imagine if I never asked her about him, what would she have told me she was doing when she goes to see him?

MY QUESTION IS: SHOULD I BE ALARMED AT THE SITUATION? SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

I'm sorry if it's long, but I just thought you'd be able to understand it more clearly.

****I have asked this question before, but I resubmitted it to get a second opinion. I haven't gotten many responses, and I'd like to hear more opinions.

So, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months, and are both 18 years old.

We have a very strong relationship, talk everyday, both each other's first boy/girlfriend, and we love each other completely.

So, my dilemma is:

She has received texts from a guy who I've never met, and she's never mentioned him EVER, in any conversations. She never brought up his name at all. I could see him texting her because I usually hold her phone in my pocket because her pockets are too small and she hates taking her purse. I felt her phone vibrate in my pocket once when we were together and I took it out for her to check, and I noticed it was this guy again.

I brushed it off as nothing more than just a friend, as I didn't want to come off as too suspicious and controlling. However, this continued on and on and I just got more irritated, as she STILL didn't mention anything about him.

About last week, they were texting apparently and he called her out of nowhere, and she quickly grabbed the phone and put it on Silent. Since then, I've been very worried and suspicious so I decided to ask her about it. I asked her who he is, and why she's never mentioned him before.

She said, "He's just a friend who I lost touch with and I never found a reason to talk about him. I didn't think it was a big deal for me to be texting him since I know he's only a friend".

I trust her and believe that he's just a friend, but I just don't understand why she decided it was perfectly normal to not mention him at all.

So anyways, she tells me today (after I've asked her about who he is and everything) and she says' "Oh, well, me and Alan are going to lunch on Wednesday". I was like "Okay, sure". I thought it was odd how she never told me anything about him but all of a sudden, she makes plans to see him.

I imagine if I never asked her about him, what would she have told me she was doing when she goes to see him?

MY QUESTION IS: SHOULD I BE ALARMED AT THE SITUATION? SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

I'm sorry if it's long, but I just thought you'd be able to understand it more clearly.

****I have asked this question before, but I resubmitted it to get a second opinion. I haven't gotten many responses, and I'd like to hear more opinions.

So, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months, and are both 18 years old.

We have a very strong relationship, talk everyday, both each other's first boy/girlfriend, and we love each other completely.

So, my dilemma is:

She has received texts from a guy who I've never met, and she's never mentioned him EVER, in any conversations. She never brought up his name at all. I could see him texting her because I usually hold her phone in my pocket because her pockets are too small and she hates taking her purse. I felt her phone vibrate in my pocket once when we were together and I took it out for her to check, and I noticed it was this guy again.

I brushed it off as nothing more than just a friend, as I didn't want to come off as too suspicious and controlling. However, this continued on and on and I just got more irritated, as she STILL didn't mention anything about him.

About last week, they were texting apparently and he called her out of nowhere, and she quickly grabbed the phone and put it on Silent. Since then, I've been very worried and suspicious so I decided to ask her about it. I asked her who he is, and why she's never mentioned him before.

She said, "He's just a friend who I lost touch with and I never found a reason to talk about him. I didn't think it was a big deal for me to be texting him since I know he's only a friend".

I trust her and believe that he's just a friend, but I just don't understand why she decided it was perfectly normal to not mention him at all.

So anyways, she tells me today (after I've asked her about who he is and everything) and she says' "Oh, well, me and Alan are going to lunch on Wednesday". I was like "Okay, sure". I thought it was odd how she never told me anything about him but all of a sudden, she makes plans to see him.

I imagine if I never asked her about him, what would she have told me she was doing when she goes to see him?

MY QUESTION IS: SHOULD I BE ALARMED AT THE SITUATION? SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

I'm sorry if it's long, but I just thought you'd be able to understand it more clearly.

So, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months, and are both 18 years old.

We have a very strong relationship, talk everyday, both each other's first boy/girlfriend, and we love each other completely.

So, my dilemma is:

She has received texts from a guy who I've never met, and she's never mentioned him EVER, in any conversations. She never brought up his name at all. I could see him texting her because I usually hold her phone in my pocket because her pockets are too small and she hates taking her purse. I felt her phone vibrate in my pocket once when we were together and I took it out for her to check, and I noticed it was this guy again.

I brushed it off as nothing more than just a friend, as I didn't want to come off as too suspicious and controlling. However, this continued on and on and I just got more irritated, as she STILL didn't mention anything about him.

About last week, they were texting apparently and he called her out of nowhere, and she quickly grabbed the phone and put it on Silent. Since then, I've been very worried and suspicious so I decided to ask her about it. I asked her who he is, and why she's never mentioned him before.

She said, "He's just a friend who I lost touch with and I never found a reason to talk about him. I didn't think it was a big deal for me to be texting him since I know he's only a friend".

I trust her and believe that he's just a friend, but I just don't understand why she decided it was perfectly normal to not mention him at all.

So anyways, she tells me today (after I've asked her about who he is and everything) and she says' "Oh, well, me and Alan are going to lunch on Wednesday". I was like "Okay, sure". I thought it was odd how she never told me anything about him but all of a sudden, she makes plans to see him.

I imagine if I never asked her about him, what would she have told me she was doing when she goes to see him?

MY QUESTION IS: SHOULD I BE ALARMED AT THE SITUATION? SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

I'm sorry if it's long, but I just thought you'd be able to understand it more clearly.

So, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months, and are both 18 years old.

We have a very strong relationship, talk everyday, both each other's first boy/girlfriend, and we love each other completely.

So, my dilemma is:

She has received texts from a guy who I've never met, and she's never mentioned him EVER, in any conversations. She never brought up his name at all. I could see him texting her because I usually hold her phone in my pocket because her pockets are too small and she hates taking her purse. I felt her phone vibrate in my pocket once when we were together and I took it out for her to check, and I noticed it was this guy again.

I brushed it off as nothing more than just a friend, as I didn't want to come off as too suspicious and controlling. However, this continued on and on and I just got more irritated, as she STILL didn't mention anything about him.

About last week, they were texting apparently and he called her out of nowhere, and she quickly grabbed the phone and put it on Silent. Since then, I've been very worried and suspicious so I decided to ask her about it. I asked her who he is, and why she's never mentioned him before.

She said, "He's just a friend who I lost touch with and I never found a reason to talk about him. I didn't think it was a big deal for me to be texting him since I know he's only a friend".

I trust her and believe that he's just a friend, but I just don't understand why she decided it was perfectly normal to not mention him at all.

So anyways, she tells me today (after I've asked her about who he is and everything) and she says' "Oh, well, me and Alan are going to lunch on Wednesday". I was like "Okay, sure". I thought it was odd how she never told me anything about him but all of a sudden, she makes plans to see him.

I imagine if I never asked her about him, what would she have told me she was doing when she goes to see him?

MY QUESTION IS: SHOULD I BE ALARMED AT THE SITUATION? SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

I'm sorry if it's long, but I just thought you'd be able to understand it more clearly.

So, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months, and are both 18 years old.

We have a very strong relationship, talk everyday, both each other's first boy/girlfriend, and we love each other completely.

So, my dilemma is:

She has received texts from a guy who I've never met, and she's never mentioned him EVER, in any conversations. She never brought up his name at all. I could see him texting her because I usually hold her phone in my pocket because her pockets are too small and she hates taking her purse. I felt her phone vibrate in my pocket once when we were together and I took it out for her to check, and I noticed it was this guy again.

I brushed it off as nothing more than just a friend, as I didn't want to come off as too suspicious and controlling. However, this continued on and on and I just got more irritated, as she STILL didn't mention anything about him.

About last week, they were texting apparently and he called her out of nowhere, and she quickly grabbed the phone and put it on Silent. Since then, I've been very worried and suspicious so I decided to ask her about it. I asked her who he is, and why she's never mentioned him before.

She said, "He's just a friend who I lost touch with and I never found a reason to talk about him. I didn't think it was a big deal for me to be texting him since I know he's only a friend".

I trust her and believe that he's just a friend, but I just don't understand why she decided it was perfectly normal to not mention him at all.

So anyways, she tells me today (after I've asked her about who he is and everything) and she says' "Oh, well, me and Alan are going to lunch on Wednesday". I was like "Okay, sure". I thought it was odd how she never told me anything about him but all of a sudden, she makes plans to see him.

I imagine if I never asked her about him, what would she have told me she was doing when she goes to see him?

MY QUESTION IS: SHOULD I BE ALARMED AT THE SITUATION? SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

I'm sorry if it's long, but I just thought you'd be able to understand it more clearly.

So, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months, and are both 18 years old.

We have a very strong relationship, talk everyday, both each other's first boy/girlfriend, and we love each other completely.

So, my dilemma is:

She has received texts from a guy who I've never met, and she's never mentioned him EVER, in any conversations. She never brought up his name at all. I could see him texting her because I usually hold her phone in my pocket because her pockets are too small and she hates taking her purse. I felt her phone vibrate in my pocket once when we were together and I took it out for her to check, and I noticed it was this guy again.

I brushed it off as nothing more than just a friend, as I didn't want to come off as too suspicious and controlling. However, this continued on and on and I just got more irritated, as she STILL didn't mention anything about him.

About last week, they were texting apparently and he called her out of nowhere, and she quickly grabbed the phone and put it on Silent. Since then, I've been very worried and suspicious so I decided to ask her about it. I asked her who he is, and why she's never mentioned him before.

She said, "He's just a friend who I lost touch with and I never found a reason to talk about him. I didn't think it was a big deal for me to be texting him since I know he's only a friend".

I trust her and believe that he's just a friend, but I just don't understand why she decided it was perfectly normal to not mention him at all.

So anyways, she tells me today (after I've asked her about who he is and everything) and she says' "Oh, well, me and Alan are going to lunch on Wednesday". I was like "Okay, sure". I thought it was odd how she never told me anything about him but all of a sudden, she makes plans to see him.

I imagine if I never asked her about him, what would she have told me she was doing when she goes to see him?

MY QUESTION IS: SHOULD I BE ALARMED AT THE SITUATION? SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

I'm sorry if it's long, but I just thought you'd be able to understand it more clearly.