Dumped by girlfriend, how to win her back?

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So last night, my long-distance girlfriend of 10 months just dumped me. We live hundreds of miles apart now since she's in college.

Her reason? She wasn't sure she wanted to be tied down, she wanted to be able to have somebody closer, etc. I'm completely devastated, none of these reasons have anything to do with how I acted or done. She said she spark just wasn't there anymore.

I'm so shocked, and I want to win her back. She means the absolute world to me, and I just can't handle myself without having her beside me. I lost my virginity to her, so there's a big emotional attachement to that.

She said she still wants to be friends, and so do I, but I still want to be with her again.

Thoughts?

But she's been in college for one week. We've been together for a little under a year. I know her better than anybody. Are people really that cruel to ditch someone they've known and cared about for some stranger?

Lonely · Accepted Answer

Wake up. Give yourself some reality check, you really need it.

I know her better than anybody.<< This is you speaking. This is just an opinion, my dear.

You lost your virginity to her, well, you'll always remember her, but you've got to let go. You sound like a good man. Find someone else. 

She wants spark, give it to her if you want to. But it's hard to spark things up when you're far from each other, it's going to cost you a lot. Besides she's in college, she'll probably sleep around and have fun. You should too. You will.

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