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I broke up with my ex or "baby momma" after 4yrs because I want to play the field. Help?

I broke up with my ex or " my baby momma" a couple of weeks ago because Im not happy with her. She was my first and only sex partner and it hurts me that she got a chance to experience to be with not a few guys but many guys. I try to blot it out but it hurts. Im starting to flirt with a lot of women and my head turns at every hot chick to the point I am not attracted to my baby momma. one quality that makes me dont want to lose her is that shes down for me no matter what and when it comes to sex she tries the best to please me which is why I dont complain about the sex. I started dating several chicks and dating has became expensive. I didnt have to do any of this with baby momma. Now im dating two chicks still sleeping with my baby momma just got put on child support by baby momma. D A M!! whats my problem why is it I cant stay commited to my daugthers mother and love her like I should. I have barely new one of the chicks and I think Im falling in love but she is full of lies and deal with to much family problems. What should I do because that child support aint no joke.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    Play the field and have fun. You only live once. But at all costs make sure you support your daughter emotionally and financially, and spend all the time you can with her. She won't be young forever.

  • 1 decade ago

    You pay child support in one form or another whether you stay with your bm (baby momma) or not so that's not the issue. The problem is sleeping around with other chicks. All it takes is a broken condom or a chick that isn't on any form of birth control or lies about being on birth control and then you have another bm do deal with and more child support. Plus, why still sleep with your bm when you are sleeping with other chicks? Do you want to put the mother of your child in jeopardy of getting an STD? There's so much drama and risk in being a player why do you want to leave the stability of a solid, loving relationship to be with crazy chicks? Your commitment problems are because you haven't learned enough about yourself as a single guy and what you want. You probably jumped into this serious relationship at a very young age which hampered you from learning from life. Some people know what they want and happy and content with what they have at a young age but most are not. I'd be single for awhile, date, avoid sleeping around and quit sleeping with and wrapping up your bm in your drama until you get your crap together.

  • 1 decade ago

    You should pay your child support and be a part of your daughter's life. You knew from the beginning that your ex is selfish. And that won't change. Stop having sex with her NOW. Otherwise one of these days, she will be announcing she's pregnant and will need more child support. There is no reason to stay committed to the Mom. Just stay committed to the daughter. Have you had a paternity test? If she's slept with a ton of guys, the daughter may not be yours. You were just the easy one to blame.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Classic baby momma drama!

    You are a disgrace!

  • 1 decade ago

    Wow, your are a great role model for your daughter aren't you. How do you sleep at night?

  • 1 decade ago

    do the world a favor go get fixed then sleep with who ever you want

  • 1 decade ago

    ur such an a**..whatever and whomever she did before you doesn't and shouldn't matter....do your thing playa.......you're going to realize you want to be with her and i hope it's too late when you do...men like you are responsible for women turning into total bitc*es

  • 1 decade ago

    Its cheaper to keep her

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    what up plaaaaaaya....

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