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Sexual no no's for christians?
Beside the obvious sex before marriage what things do you think we should not do inside marriage I am divorced from a christian woman and we had a rough sex life because her father made it into something dirty and she never got over that she couldn't enjoy the beautiful nature of this gift from God that being said we still did all kinds of sexual play and tried everything what does everyone think on this are there no fly zones in married sex lives of christians
sorry i will start to use punctuation i picked up this habit from instant messanger
18 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Girl on Girl...or Boy on Boy. MFM or FMF action. Orgies, Baby oil parties, anal, oral, pretty much everything 'cept being headf*cked
- 1 decade ago
It depends on your Religion and how far you are going to let it go in your bedroom. Some faiths rule out spilling seed any were but in the woman, some say no to oral and anal sex, some say no to condoms.
Some think the woman has the right to say no, some do not. You can not really make a statement on what Christians do and do not do because there is a wide stretch between different denominations.
I know some strict couples that only have it when plan to have a child. That is something you should really talk to your Pastor about and to the person you marry before you marry. Yes things may change when you actually practice them in marriage but a goo conversation may give you a feel for the person.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
thats sad that he made it a terrible experience for her. Actually religiously speaking, sex is encouraged for Christians, its an act of love and intimacy! You can actually take Christian courses focusing on ways to enjoy sex and making it a spiritually centering experience for both parties.
Myth: Christians aren't supposed to have oral sex
Fact: While ejaculating in a mouth is prohibited as it encourages pleasure without procreation no one says you can't use it as foreplay!
Myth: Christians should only have intercourse in the missionary position
Fact: While missionary position is considered the most intimate there are many acceptable and interchangable positions, sex in the "doggy style" position is discouraged (but no rules set against it in Christianity) because it lacks spirituality. The only sexual position actually set against by the church is anal sex, again going against the purpose of procreation.
In Judaism, its actually a mitzvah (good deed) to have sex with your spouse....and doubled mitzvah to do it on the sabbath!
- guraqt2meLv 71 decade ago
Your ex's dad should of focused more on the scripture, "the marriage bed is undefiled" instead, of indoctrinating his daughter (your ex) into believing that something so wonderful can be so dirty ! Tell me; would a loving God really create something "evil" like sex, have us procreate from it and then, call it dirty ? This ex-father in-law sounds like he had "religion" - not Christianity ! You can add your story to the growing list of "religion" giving genuine Christianity a bad name !
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- heatre24Lv 51 decade ago
If both people are comfortable with what's going on, and neither person is forcing the other to do anything, I honestly don't think God cares what we do sexually as long as we're married. (And don't bring anyone else into it... like watching porn together... I don't think that's ok.) Sex is a beautiful thing intended for marriage, and should only involve the two people to enhance their relationship.
- 1 decade ago
The only sexual no no for Christians is don't have sex outside of marriage- keep the marriage bed unsoiled.
- What?Lv 51 decade ago
The skies the limit when you are married, however, I agree with an answerer above that porn should be left out.
- RoverLv 61 decade ago
Having sex with animals..there's somewhere in the OT that says not to have anal sex, but that's the OT.. I think that's pretty much it. Oh, don't have a sex with anyone outside your marriage (no threesomes or orgies, no joining a swingers club and no strip bars.)
- StrangerLv 41 decade ago
it's a real shame that so many are taught that sex is something to be ashamed of. personally, I feel that two people who truly love each other should be able to express their love however they wish.
- Lady of LibertyLv 51 decade ago
i dont know..but i guess if u dont know it is o.k. cuz then u wouldnt know right from wrong...i know that sounds stupied but when He discribed unnatural sex He spoke about unmarried and same sex..He never said anything about married