which of the two you prefer?

Neither. I want a guy I can respect who keeps me on my toes, but still respects me and gives something back. I don't want an insensitive jerk, and I definitely don't want some weak lapdog type guy drooling over me either.

Your asking it like it is happening in true life. Like in a movie series.

Like the "Lovers in Paris" Asian Novela series

But i think you would pick the one you love. Until the time he loves you. Then your bestfriend that loves you so much tries to put himself in your life. But you told him a hundred times that you only love him as a brother or a bestfriend. Of course you would always choose the one you really love(base on movies, cause you fight for the one you love. even if the one you love doesn't love you). But sometimes in some movies you look back and try to love your bestfriend. Now the one you loved, loves you now and you don't know what to do.

But for me like many stupid people like what i did in the past... You may also think i am one of them well i guess i am. Because when it comes to love i don't care what people think...anyway

I would still pick the one i love, i'll fight for him because i love him.

But i know some are right to pick "Neither because if you pick one "You'll be the one to get hurt and it will only leave a scar i your heart" and also your bestfriend that he is seeing you hurt and he is hurting seeing you trying to go to someone else's life though even he is trying to put his self in your life and your like pushing him in a way. That's like that.

If you pick the 2nd you will be a litlle happy. But never fully satisfied or happy you'll also be hurt seeing the boy of your dreams with someone else.

Hope i helped! :( thx!

i just walkd away from the man i loved to b with the man who loves me. I deserve love and respect. And in doing so i learned that i care alot about the guy who loves me i just wasnt giving him a fair shake cuz i fancied being in love with the one who treated me like sh*t

Neither.

I wouldn't waste my time on someone who wouldn't give me the time of day.. And for the friend who loves me, well they must have been a best friend for a reason.

I wouldn't want to give false signals and tag them along for a ride that will have no end.

i pick the 2nd one. why? because best friends can become lovers. the man who really love so much but doesnt care means that hes an @-hole. period.

Never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.

^^ love that quote

(is that even how it goes?)

but yeah anyway stick with the one who loves you so much

"if you cant be with the one you love, love the one that you are with"

i'd rather be the one who loves me. life is too short to waste on a person who can't appreciate our affection. anyways if you have started a freindship with the one that loves you it could be that if i give him a chance you might fall for him.

you really need to fix your wording before any one can properly answer that i felt like i was reading my way through a maze!!

Oh and for the guy who answered before me you don't want someone who is "more of a man" Manly men are the ones who get in accidents, think its funny to pick on people who are different,a and sleep with anything that walks as long as it has a hole to stick it in.

I'm not a woman, but the first one, because the second one is a bit clingy and suck-uppy and like a little doggy, and you want someone who's more of a man.

I prefer the one with the above remedial grasp of grammar...