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Ok how do i tell them I don't want a big party?
Ok my birthday is on the 5th of April thats like a week away...My parents want to have a big birthday party for me cause i will be 20 then...they want to invite all my family, my close friends etc....they have made all the arrangements already catered everything..but i don't want a big party...is it 2 late to tell them that? if not i don't want to blurt it out an tell them..can u suggest ways to help me out?
Ok Kevin we are not millionaires lol..my family just like to have fun...but this year i think i need a break from all the partying etc... i just want some alone time to chill an think....
Thanks luh....I will just go with the flow an have a great time
Thanks luh....I will just go with the flow an have a great time
12 Answers
- luhLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
You should be grateful that they are even having a party, times are tough now. Most people will bring you a gift or a card with money so just appreciate the fact they are doing this for you. You waited too long to tell them you did not want anything special so after this party tell them how much you appreciate what they did but you would not want another birthday party that huge.
Source(s): A parent - 1 decade ago
You should have said something earlier, but try to talk to them now to see if they can call it off.
Writing a note usually works because then they can't interrupt you while you explain why you don't want the party.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It's only one day.
Enjoy it. And tell them since your having a big party this time.. You want a smaller one next time.
- fly pieLv 41 decade ago
if you're turning 20 then MAN up and tell them you don't want it..they'll probably react better than you think, unless they've already done everything for it. then you best just sit back and enjoy aha
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- 1 decade ago
if they have already made all the plans its too late. just enjoy it. you'll probably end up having more fun than you thought you would. trust me my parents do this all the time
- 1 decade ago
your 20 years old, a grown man, if your parents have a problem with you not wanting a big party then they'll just have to live with it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
just go to the party.
Source(s): you'll live - Anonymous1 decade ago
yeah it is kind of late .
just tell them you only want to invite a couple of people .
- Anonymous1 decade ago
appreciate it son and enjoy the party!
can i come?
