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Hey Girlzz I need Help with this girl i really like. HlpPlz?

I met this girl 3 weeks ago in class, at first i didn't notice her that much... ... we became good class mates, share, talk...etc. regular stuff. suddenly one day she ask me to have dinner with her after class 9pm approx. .. we had an excellent conversation, and good dinner (I pay)... the next class, we went out with a couple more class mates for some beers, we had great time together..... last saturday 3 days ago... we went to the beach, (her idea) the two of us, and we had great time..... but nothing happened and this is my concern... she recently broke up with his fiance. 3 weeks ago. and she keeps telling me i'm a great guy and constantly tells me she wants to hook me up with a friend of hers .. I'm not interested in her friend, i'm interested in her... but i dont know why she's so straight forward with me...asking me out, asking me to study with her.. (last week...the two of us in her apartment)... and nothing happened... SO... whats the matter with these situation ?... i'm being coward because she sends me all this mixed signals ::!!!! i need help to understand the situation... !!! i will really appreciate it. !!!

Thanks.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    She probably doesn't have a clue that you like her in that way, and just thinks of you both as friends. You really should let her know how you feel about her, the next time she tells you that she has a friend for you to hook up with, just say that there's no need for anybody else as you already like somebody else, her! Whatever way you choose to do it, i really hope it works out for you, best of luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Okay, this girl is obviously in need of a friend right now. She's probably into you too but right now (because of everything going on) she's trying to stay away from a new relationship. She's probably hoping that her fiance will come back to her, which he might I don't know, but she wants a friend to hang out with. She probably had a very nice relationship with her fiance or ex-fiance I should say. Which is why instead of having her gal pals with her, she probably wants a guy that she likes who makes her feel wanted around her.

    I would probably say give her some time, just be a BFF right now and if nothing happens with her and another guy than make a move yourself. Instead of having her ask you, you ask her to something more romantic to give her the idea. Also when she says she wants to hook you up with her friend, that means that her friend probably likes you so if you aren't interested tell your dear friend that you aren't looking for a girl right now. Not only is it saying no to the one girl but it's making the girl you like think that it'll be harder to get you if she does like you.

    Also (just in case) make sure you aren't a gal pal yourself. Don't be going shopping or watching movies with her because that is a gal pal, make sure your a possible boyfriend instead. K? Great!

    Hope you guys become a sweet couple some day.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well for starters she probably still trying to get over her fiance (seriously dude its common sense your not going to go straight into a new relationship for a while especially when you were very close to getting married DUR!!!) second shes not going to do the hippidy dippidy with you straight off (again especially after a really close and long relationship and again this is common sense DUH!) third maybe shes comfortable to be with you in your apartment and the beach and asking you ouT to dinner, all that good stuff because she prob. really only thinks of you as a really good friend but that's it. I cant stress this enough don't rush into things and please give the lady a little time to recuperate and get everything together because well (again) SHE JUST GOT OUTTA THE RELATIONSHIP even though you want the relationship with her you have to be a little understanding and let her have time! fourth, its not mixed signals if you think about it or (like me) have common sense.

  • 1 decade ago

    your situation is like wow. lol. i can't believe she's not interested in you. i mean after all the signs u sent her. but try 2 make it sound like your interested in her. if it doesn't work, tell her u thought she was inerested in u, but don't tell her u r interested in her yet. if she's not just move on, maybe she's no the one. but first try your hardest to get her to realize it's her u want. then maybe just tell her, and see where it goes.

    Source(s): My opinion.
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She knows she is vulnerable. She feels safe and comfortable with you but she is not ready. You are going to have to be patient. She is interested most likely and doesn't even know it.

  • 1 decade ago

    ISN'T it obvious!!!!???? She is asking you out bc she likes you! She keeps mentioning being her friends boyfriend so you will say, "I like you not your friend!" She doesn't want to be the one to ask into a relationship she wants to trick you into asking her! So ask her!!!

    Source(s): COMMON SENSE!! :)
  • 1 decade ago

    obviously she likes u!!! she's just shy did u tell her u like her?? u should and u give allot of signals make her feel secure and know that u like her!!!!!! hold her hand hug her then one time kiss her cheek then lips and then more !!!

    goodluck xox

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    she's soooo into...

    instead of always having her ask you out....how about YOU ask her out a few times...maybe she'll get the hint that you like her back....

  • 1 decade ago

    She probably has a crush on you but think you won't accept it.

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