Help me, I have no social life.?

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Well, it won't hurt to go have fun, so go on! for the singles night i mean.

And as for your general social life, i guess u just have to sit back relax. i believe in fate, and soon you will find who is destined to be found by u.

ever thought of applying few days leave? bring ur daughter to the parks, theme parks, swim, bicycle ride... whatever. "U'd never know what u gonna get"

I think mainly its because you have a night job, so u have less day time for social activities.

I am sorry to read about your wife.

You're not the only one who doesn't have much of a social life though. The difficult thing is, as I'm sure you know, a life isn't going to come to you. You have to create one. You have to go out there and take up opportunities that would allow you to meet people. Which I understand is much easier said than done!

Go to the Singles night at the church. What's really the worst that could happen? You sound like a good person to me. Loads of people can't dance, believe it or not, it can actually be a bit of an icebreaker when it comes to these sorts of things. Take up as many opportunities for social outings as you can. I realize this may be difficult with your young daughter and working nights, but is there any kind of hobby class or exercise group or something that you can join?

And people from your past--is there anyone that you've drifted apart from but might want to try rebuilding a friendship with again? You could always try that.

I am sorry of your loss. I have about the same lifestyle, except I have 3 kids not 1 and I chose to leave my kids father. I also work nights, and go home sleep and start over again..... So I know how you feel. But only you know if you are ready to take a shot at love again. Maybe just hang out with your family or a co worker that you feel comfortable around for a while to test the waters. I personally will not date again until my children are grown because I am afraid of putting my emotional needs in front of them, but that is just me. I think church is a good place to start, but your coworkers are also.

Take dance lessons first. See DATING (PAGE A). DATING: BODY LANGUAGE & FLIRTING, &

DATING (PAGE B) DATING: BODY LANGUAGE & FLIRTING, &

DATING (PAGE C). READY TO DATE AGAIN? & DATING - DATING: THE FIRST DATE: MISTAKES, etc. in section 9, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris

Most people are suggestible, to some degree, so you could either seek professional hypnotherapy, or, quicker, cheaper, and more conveniently: http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/

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start dating. Going to church can help too. Think about it, are you willing to do all these things over and over again until you reach 50? until your daughter gets her 16th birthday? That's really boring. I mean, I know it was hard on you, I'm really not forcing you to date especially if you can't get over your wife, but think about yourself and your daughter, there's a beautiful world out there. Don't waste it. :)

You need to put yourself out there and just be who you are. I have met people I have had instant chemistry with and sometimes it takes a while. Just be open and do your own thing.

Do you want a social life?