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Whats wrong with me, i need some help?
I have been with my partner for 4 years, have a beautiful daughter aged 18 months, my animals, my home, a nice car, everything.... BUT we haven't had se for 4 months! I love him and he loves me its me that turns it down all the time, i am worried even about cuddling him in case i lead him on to think i want sex.
We have money problems but who hasn't at the moment, i have low self confidence some days but others i am fine, i have no motivation and my other half thinks i don't love him and in-fact hate him, i have tried to explain how i feel but he doesn't seem to understand!
I love him with all my heart and don't want to loose him, I want to be having sex and enjoying each other but we just seem to be stuck in a rut and cant get out!
Help advise anything appreciated!
5 Answers
- SilentDoGoodLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Something is not right here. Are you married to the guy? If not, then see a counselor, minister or lawyer.
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- 1 decade ago
I must say say your partner is fortunate enough to have a good partner like you. You are the biggest critic of yourself. If you love him so much then why do you hesitate to talk to him. Money is not a big issue in the current scenario. The whole world is facing the challenge and it is the time to trust upon your near and dear ones and have faith upon them. I think you only need some time to think about yourself but do not make any judgment about your relation. A healthy relation is always a bilateral issue and you need to communicate clearly with him. Your relation demands time . So give time to it.
- 1 decade ago
You should talk with you OBGYN about it. Or a family doctor about how you have been feeling. It sounds like you are depressed and need a little help. I would do it asap because if you do want to have sex and cant get yourself to get into it then it might hurt your relationship more. Take him with you when you go to show him you do love and care for im and you are trying to get help.
- 1 decade ago
Wow.. 4 months. I've found alcohol to be very helpful in situations such as this.
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- joejorobLv 61 decade ago
Have you tried talking to him? Ask him to talk about what is bothering him that he doesn't want sex. Good luck