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My wife and I have a newborn, soon we will start to have "relations" again. How do I make it good for her?

It's been almost 3 months and I just want to ravish her. lol Somehow, I think this isn't the best approach.

Any advice, ladies?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Ummm, you should go ahead and ravish her. Make her feel sexy. Tell her how beautiful she is, and that you love every inch of her body. Women after pregnancy are often self-conscious. And before you do, help with the chores, make the house clean, and help put the baby to sleep. Also, give her time to shower or take a nice hot bath with alone time. Buy her flowers... or better yet, pick some flowers.

  • SLH
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Congratulations on both becoming a father and being so patient. Take things slowly and let her guide you. If she seems too tired then maybe she needs some more help round the house before you consider anything more erotic

    Source(s): experience
  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah, ravishing sounds pretty good.....LOL Just make sure you go slow. It could be painful for her in the beginning, so just make sure to follow her ques.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I guess it depends on her mood and how much sex drive she has. I couldn't wait to be "active" again with my hubby and I was all over him. So he didn't really need to worry. Not every woman feels this way, so go from her cues. Being responsive to all her needs is most likely what will help. If she's reluctant, be reassuring. Good luck.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If it has been 3 months I would want to be ravished :-)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The most important thing is to make sure she is ready and just listen to her. Trust me, she'll let you know.

  • Julie
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    go slow things will probably be a lil painful at first. i suggest going at her pace, and using plenty of lube

  • 1 decade ago

    lots of foreplay and lube, it can be very sensitive down there!

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