AT&T DSL Interenet in not in my area?

Where do i start I moved about 3 weeks ago to a new area well not that new because i stayed here before so i know this area. Well any way the area i moved to does not offer cable or Dsl which i could understand about cable, But DSL serously, The reason i saying all of this is because my neighbors have DSL with AT&T which is also my phone provider. So i call them and requested services about Dsl these people have the nerve to say OH i am sorry but the area which you live does not have enough splinced what ever you want to call it which i guessing wires. So in order to get our services someone meaning neighbor would have to suspend there services or moved to a new phone company. OK AT&T serously this a multi billion dollars company and you telling me that, you can not afford for one person to get DSL. Okay you say you don't have enough equippment then upgrade like i know some of you might say that would cost them alot of money, But hello remember my neighbor have DSL and it work perfect it can't cost that much if DSL lines all ready in a area. if any one have experience or had please help or any AT&T workers i would love advice to how to get AT&T to do something.