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What is wrong with me?

I am fairly popular, pretty, smart and get along great with guys. I have had a few boyfriends but nothing that really stuck, mainly just physical attractions. I have tons of guys asking for my picture and being like your pretty/hot/cute but never anything more. I am not boring, have a 4.0, am not high maintenance, and all that stuff but I never get past flirting. What should I change about my self to get more guys wanting a real relationship.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I see nothing wrong based on your description. Just be patient, the right boy will come along when the time comes. To be honest, I wish you were my gf, 4.0 gpa, hot, cute and all that good stuff. What's not to like. E-mail me if you have more questions!

  • 1 decade ago

    my best friend is exactly the same way.

    she cant get past the flirting.

    i would say, dont show people that ur too loose, and flirt with anyone.

    when u flirt with a lot of people, a guy might not want to get in a serious relationship with u, for many reasons.

    they could be afraid that if they actually ask u out

    and u guys do go out, that maybe ull flirt with other guys.

    dont flirt with many guys at once.

    focus on one person(: i hope this is good advice, bc there really isnt much i can think of for u to get past this.

    but take more advice than just mine, this is just one(:

  • Maybe your depending to much on looks. Not yours but your ex or future boyfriends. Maybe some guys look past your looks and into your heart and personality. Maybe you should try that as well. You seem like the type of girl every guy dreams about. Don't feel like you have to change anything for guys, if your happy with yourself then the guts should be as well. Nothing is wrong with you.

    Source(s): My Brain
  • 1 decade ago

    You don't have to do anything. You are a beautiful girl with great personality, and you will certainly find the person you are looking for.

    Sometimes, we get more mature in our way of thinking, as compared to our environment, and this makes us feel that the world is swallow. However, it's a matter of time (and of luck, too), to find your real relationship. Meanwhile, enjoy the gift of living!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Probably nothing. Most guys are out looking for shallow girls. You don't sound like one of them. I know it's tough, but it sounds like your life is meant to be more than just one of finding "some" guy. You are meant to find the "right" guy. I've been waiting for the "right" girl for a long time now. The thing that helps me is just helping/spending time with other people and friends and seeing how much worse my life could be.

    The only thing worse than being alone is being with the wrong person.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    mayb if they think ur pretty much perfect they are intimidated and scared to get into a relationship with u bcuz they think u mite cheat on them or just go around flirting with other guys

  • 1 decade ago

    there is nothing wrong with you

    the right guy for you just hasnt shown up YET

    you seem like a great person and one day a lucky guy will want you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    maybe guys are just intimidated by you so they can never take it to the next level.

  • 1 decade ago

    dude i'm the same i can never make it passed flirting

  • 1 decade ago

    It's not you...you just haven't found "The Guy" yet.

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